Fudge2617Contributor
I am not crazy. It is my narcissistic mother!
Please can someone tell me I am not the crazy one.
My Autistic son and I lost everything in the floods of 2013. My mother held my house as our Trustee. After the floods, my son and I wanted to move somewhere safer as it was too traumatic to go back to where we were. I approached her to sign the for sale contract on my house so we could move. She would not sign it UNLESS I gave her $5000.
I did not have $5000 as we had just lost EVERYTHING. In going through solicitors to try and get her to do the right thing by my son (her Autistic Grandson) to sign the contract, she still wouldnt unless I also paid her legal costs. With this and what my son and I had just been through. I had to walk away and she sold the house out from underneath us and left us homeless.
To this day, 5 years on, my son and I are still struggling to get back on our feet. I have managed to save for a small old house. BUT IT IS OURS..
Because she lost money on the sale of MY property, I am now receiving "Seizure and Sale" letters from her solicitor stating she is going to sell our house here because of the debt she incurred because of her OWN actions of Extortion and Greed. I am fighting through the Courts to get back what was ours that she has NO RIGHT to take.
Only for the Legal System to believe the Narcissist and let her continue to threaten us with Homelessness for a second time to her Greed.
What do I do?? I have written to every Government Department to be told, "It is a mother, it is acceptable" even though If I was to do this to her it would be Elder Abuse.
It is a case of Elder Abuse, BUT IT IS THE ELDER DOING THE ABUSING and the system is letting her. My son and I moved 50kms away to get away from her only to have her regularly come to the town we moved to FOR COFFEE!!!!!!!!!!!
What we have been told by people in Authority "MOVE AGAIN"
What do I do other than the unthinkable???