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Am i really that selfish?

outlanderSenior Contributor01 Nov 2018, 11:49 am AEDT

Am i really that selfish?

Am i really that selfish and that awful?

ive been told 3 different things today and its not even lunch time.

1. i asked for some help to check in on pop while im away on the weekend and i got called selfish for it becasue my main priority should be pop.

2. Then pop joined in and agreed.

3. i got asked what i was studying, so i told them and their response was 'why, what are you going to do with it, youve already got a job and other commitments'

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 3:49 pm AEDT

Re: Am i really that selfish?

Aww @Sans911 💜
You have left me speechless. I dont know what to say back to you except thank you. It doesnt seem enough though. It never seems to express my gratitude to you and everyone here that helps guide me through the hard (and the good) stuff.
Youve always got my support too and even when im well im not going anywhere. I would much rather be here and keeping my connections and maybe one day ill be able to guide others through the tough stuff too.... and keeping the hopes that maybe one day ill be lucky enough to meet in person.

Oh and btw the answer to 'commercial' drug was just the different brand names. So another assignment down. 2 more to go and then its pretty much completed.

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Sans911Senior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 3:59 pm AEDT

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That was my next thing I was going to ask you about was your study question @outlander

You don't need to thank me as I know already that you are grateful and appreciative of my guidance and support. And anyway, you pay it back thousand fold and then some with your support of myself and others.

I've not achieved much today at all. I'm still sitting on my bed. I will get up now after this post as I have quite a bit to do. And I really need a shower.

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 9:33 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 💜 💜 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 9:56 pm AEDT

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I got to that shower at last @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 10:01 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 im really glad you did. I not long had a shower myself.
How are you feeling?

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Sans911Senior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 10:26 pm AEDT

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I'm alright lil Sis @outlander. How are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Nov 2018, 10:38 pm AEDT

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Im okish sis. My stomach feels but i cant do much about it. Ive got an early start but as usual cant sleep... Has already been a big day.
Do you have plans for tomorrow? @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor03 Nov 2018, 12:01 am AEDT

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Are you still around @outlander?

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Nov 2018, 12:05 am AEDT

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Yes sis
Are you ok? @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor03 Nov 2018, 12:08 am AEDT

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Yep, I'm OK. Just missing my sisters. Haven't really spent much time with you this week @outlander

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