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Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Hi @Former-Member This is an old post - it explains how medical neglect by Drs (doing no scans or tests) ended with me in hospital - the direct cause of my 1st emergency bowel surgery.

I have no current GP, since mine left (months ago) - will need to find one.

I have lived for several decades with serious physical illnesses (or conditions) -

Scoliosis, causing severe back pain

Sleep Apnea (diagnosed 11 years ago), causing debilitating daily fatigue - treatment & stimulant medication has moderately improved my functioning. Not to anywhere near a "normal" level, for someone without a Sleep Disorder (or a fatigue condition).

A bowel obstruction (tumor), with 3 major bowel surgeries (2 emergencies) - from which my body has never fully recovered.

My digestive system (which was disconnected for 6 months), has not worked effectively for the past 3 years - since my bowels were re-connected (stoma reversal surgery).

I also have Complex PTSD, from more than 2 decades of trauma.

Because PTSD is supposedly an "anxiety disorder" (so-called) - medical professionals have on several occasions attempted to "explain away" my physical symptoms as being "just anxiety".

This has stopped me from accessing adequate medical care, on several occasions.

The "just anxiety" was later found to be a life-threatening bowel obstruction (tumor) - which required immediate surgery. Then a 2nd emergency surgery, 3 days later (when the 1st went disastrously wrong). Then a 3rd bowel surgery, 6 months later to reverse the damage (& clean up the mess).

I now have 2 serious hernias, as a result of the bowel surgeries - wound split, extensive wide scarring, & hernias in the middle.

Have others experienced their physical illnesses (or medical emergencies) not being taken seriously - because of having a mental illness diagnosis?

How did you overcome these obstacles to receiving medical care (if you could)?

Self-care is difficult, when my food does not digest adequately - despite Probiotics & Gastrostop (when necessary).

I must run to the toilet with great urgency (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) - which is a cause of stress in itself, & makes working difficult.

Adge

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See previous post.

It was the GP I saw - who has done a minor surgery procedure, with no positive result.

He was unable to remove the protruding stitches - so has left it largely as is.

This is the 2nd time seeing a Dr for this.

That is why the nill result is unacceptable.

Adge

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Hi everyone.

Dr’s Surgery is now: -

“Stand behind Yellow line, one metre away from reception desk”.

Reception quizzes you about whether you have a fever, coughing or sneezing etc – then you are ordered to wear a face mask (if you have).

Overwhelming, considering the current medical issues.

I have very high blood pressure (hopefully temporary) – so Dr has called me back to test it again, etc.

Dr wants me to take Anti-diarrea meds every day (daily), as a preventative – to see if it reduces my Gut Pain & frequency (4 times at least per day).

Which is from/ due to the 4 Bowel surgeries, & Irritable Bowel Syndrome (caused by surgeries).

Dr would not do a Referral to Surgeon (for investigation), as he claims it’s unnecessary.

He opened me up (local anaesthetic), then said that he cannot remove the internal stitches.

GP Dr hopes that the remaining stitch ruptures will clear/ heal on their own - when, after 12 months they have not.

They have remained exactly like that (with no change), for almost 12 months - they are still protruding through skin.

Exhausted & bewildered…..

Several hours at the Dr's surgery.

I need to Re-Group, before finding energy & resolve to seek further treatment (options).

Adge

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Hi everyone.

If I'm not Tagging anyone - probably no-one will read this.

Tagging is beyond my capabilities, at the moment.

I now have more medical issues to add to my chronic illnesses.

I've got on-going very high blood pressure (that won't come down).

Dr said I need to reduce my stress levels – to try to lower my blood pressure.

I have no idea how to do that, other than maybe frequent relaxation exercises - Dr suggested, but gave no examples.

Will start medication (today) for prostate problems (which also lowers blood pressure) - then blood pressure meds as well, if that is not enough.

My Disability work may shut down (due to cancellations & restrictions), by the end of this week - I earnestly hope not.

Thinking of you people....

Adge

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Hugs and hugs @Adge

@Faith-and-Hope , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @Former-Member

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From me too @Adge .... 💕

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hello @Adge , how are you going my friend

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Hi @Shaz51 Thanks for your interest, checking in on me.

You also @Former-Member definitely.

Well at least my Blood Pressure has come down a bit (visit to Dr 3 days ago) - with some medication.

I'm deaf in one ear (past few weeks) - yukky oily eardrops made it worse.

Then Dr will flush my ear wax out (on Tuesday), with syringe.

The Prostate medication is helping with my Bladder problems - so it's nice to not have to run to the loo in the middle of the night (so often).

I haven't got as far as any Job Applications yet - I'm rather Burnt-Out, & need some Break (rest) 1st.

A bus tour trip down south (Busselton, Albany, etc) would be lovely - I really do need to get away somewhere.

Travel down there has now been allowed (okay), for the past 2 weeks - yet but tour trips are still not running (closed), until August.

Adge

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Oh dear @Adge @@, you're officially in-the-wars 💙 - burnout, Blood pressure , deaf in one ear - yukky oily eardrops, bladder problems... Sheesh! Guess stress can have ea bad affect on the body, and you've been through so much. At least some medication is helping by soundof sit... thank goodness. I sbsolutely support you not looking for work for a while. Just get lots of rest for a while. Hope you can make some sort of a trip away when ya feeling better... dust off a few cobwebbs. You've earned it. Could you drive - do a roadtrip? But who would mind your birds? Anyway, take it easy for a while Adge 🐦💙

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ohhh @Adge sending you tender hugs and hope you feel better soon

not that great here either my friend with infectiond , getting there very slowly

hello and Hugs @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member

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@Shaz51 - sorry to hear you're crook as well. With infection and all that affects. Is it a kidney infection, hope not given the problems there already. I've noticed you're much quieter here lately and concerned for you. I'll pray for you 🙏 Being unwell can be isolating, hope you're getting some practical support. Big changes in your life these days, major adjusting. Hang in there 💐💜🌿

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