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Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Hi @Former-Member This is an old post - it explains how medical neglect by Drs (doing no scans or tests) ended with me in hospital - the direct cause of my 1st emergency bowel surgery.

I have no current GP, since mine left (months ago) - will need to find one.

I have lived for several decades with serious physical illnesses (or conditions) -

Scoliosis, causing severe back pain

Sleep Apnea (diagnosed 11 years ago), causing debilitating daily fatigue - treatment & stimulant medication has moderately improved my functioning. Not to anywhere near a "normal" level, for someone without a Sleep Disorder (or a fatigue condition).

A bowel obstruction (tumor), with 3 major bowel surgeries (2 emergencies) - from which my body has never fully recovered.

My digestive system (which was disconnected for 6 months), has not worked effectively for the past 3 years - since my bowels were re-connected (stoma reversal surgery).

I also have Complex PTSD, from more than 2 decades of trauma.

Because PTSD is supposedly an "anxiety disorder" (so-called) - medical professionals have on several occasions attempted to "explain away" my physical symptoms as being "just anxiety".

This has stopped me from accessing adequate medical care, on several occasions.

The "just anxiety" was later found to be a life-threatening bowel obstruction (tumor) - which required immediate surgery. Then a 2nd emergency surgery, 3 days later (when the 1st went disastrously wrong). Then a 3rd bowel surgery, 6 months later to reverse the damage (& clean up the mess).

I now have 2 serious hernias, as a result of the bowel surgeries - wound split, extensive wide scarring, & hernias in the middle.

Have others experienced their physical illnesses (or medical emergencies) not being taken seriously - because of having a mental illness diagnosis?

How did you overcome these obstacles to receiving medical care (if you could)?

Self-care is difficult, when my food does not digest adequately - despite Probiotics & Gastrostop (when necessary).

I must run to the toilet with great urgency (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) - which is a cause of stress in itself, & makes working difficult.

Adge

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ohhh sending you lots of hugs my @Adge

it is hard to find the right solution with your brother with still having your own well being involved

We would love step S3 to come and live with us but the pressure would be too great for mr shaz

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Hi @Shaz51 Yes, looking after ourselves (especially with ill health etc) means that we cannot always care for others (as we would like).

I'm having a bad gut/ tummy day - as you may have guessed, from some of the funny quotes.

Adge

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having a bad gut/ tummy day - ohhh my @Adge if you are like my mum , do you need to take a extra laxative xoxo

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No it's the opposite @Shaz51 So I need Gastrostop - sometimes it's a life-saver.

Adge

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awww @Adge hope you get some soon my awesome friend xoxo

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@Adge

Thanks for tagging me, it had been quite a rough trot for you. Learning to speak up is ever so important. Are you still under the care of the gastrointestinal doc?

I am wondering if you would qualify for DSP or if your super had any disability insurance that you might be able to access.

The attached link sets out the points criteria needed in relation to DSP including gastro and psych.

https://www.legislation.gov.au/Details/F2011L02716/Html/Text#_Toc310259541

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Hi @Former-Member Thank you for your thoughtful responses.

Perhaps I should re-visit the thought of DSP application, at some point.

I was told about 18 months ago (by a MH/ Social Worker) - that she was fairly sure that I would not qualify.

It requires a rigorous medical assessment, as far as I know.

When I had a GP appointment (a few years ago) solely for the purpose of obtaining a "Job Capacity (Medical) Assessment" -

For Centrelink, to access Disability Employment Services (Job search assistance) through a Disability Services provider - the Dr never wrote or produced any Report, despite 3 months of chasing him (following up) for it.

No Gastrointestinal Dr at present - Surgeon said he didn't want to do any further follow-up appointments (after last surgery).

GP diagnosed (or thought I have) Irritable Bowel Syndrome (result of/ caused by Bowel surgeries), but provided no advice or follow-up for it - then he left the practice.

Probiotics seem to help somewhat (GP supported taking those) - so I've been taking them daily, for about 5 years.

So I need to chase up (find & decide on) a new GP (or 2) at some point soon.

Then see about getting adequate medical follow-up.

Thanks.

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