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Creating Self-Care Projects

Creating Self-Care Projects

Creating and maintaining a self care plan can feel overwhelming. However, having a good sense of what we can do to look after ourselves is fundamental to looking after our mental health and wellbeing.

Rather than being a one off plan that we write up and store away, self care is more like a lifelong project that we create and recreate in order to support our changing self care needs.

So how do you create a self care project? Here are a few creative ideas to get you started...

Make a self-care collage

Use magazines, newspapers, old letters, pictures or any kind of medium. Cut the items down to size and glue them randomly onto large heavy paper. Post the paper some place where it will be seen and use it to boost your mood.

Compile a playlist for every mood

If you're into music, this might be particualrly appealing. You can organise your music library on your computer or your phone - or perhaps even write a list of songs you can listen to boost your mood. You can title the playlist according to the emotion it represents or according to how you'd like to use it e.g. "to help when I'm feeling angry"

Design self care cards

Use white or coloured paper to cut out index cards. On one side of the card, write something inspirational or uplifting and decorate the other side with pictures or a collage. When you're feeling low, you can pick out a card (without looking) and read it as a prompt for reflection.

Create a self care jar

Decorate an old empty jar using coloured paper, stickers, or paint. Fill the jar with strips of paper containing postive affirmations, coping statements, inspiring quotes, or positive notes to yourself. Pick one out every day or as needed.

Now, it's your turn! What self care projects have you found helpful? Look forward to hearing your ideas! 👩‍🎨

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Thats really cool @Former-Member im sure she will love it!

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My first self care project that was about dealing with my grief, was choosing good photos and fossicking around for old phot o frames of different shapes and sizes. First I did it with all the people I loved who had died. I already had lots of my children, but then I started choosing photos I loved because of the positive associations. I have big photo walls now. They still help. I can forget they are there, but notice them with affection when I need.

With music, I choose a direction, more than call it a whole project. When I am not well enough to practise, it does not add to being critical. Over time it all adds up though, and now instead of negative thoughts a lot of the time, I have great tunes going through my head. Certainly I feel a lot better than 20 years ago.

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Some sage advice there @Owlunar Swimming sounds invigorating!

Absolutely @Former-Member! Diary writing is a great self care project. What I really like about diaries is that you can make them completely your own. Here are just a few ideas:

  • Write a diary using a word document or notes on your computer or phone
  • Use an app to record your thoughts
  • Keep a written diary
  • Use a thought diary to critically reflect on your thoughts and feelings
  • Use artwork as a form or journalling
  • Create a photo diary

- And lots more!

Has anybody used diary writing as a self care project?

I really love the idea of creating a scrapbook for your daughter too @Former-Member What a beautiful thing to have to look back on.

Photo's can be so powerful like that @Appleblossom And how lovely to have them up on the wall to greet you when you need. I think a future discusion idea might be for us to create something around music to boost your mood!

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I think I may write in the diary @Former-Member

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Hi @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @outlander, @Owlunar

I am going to start a diary too

And I love sitting out the front with a cuppa

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This should be interesting @Shaz51

Nothing better than a coffee out the front or just coffee in general. Having one now here

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I will have one with you @Former-Member xx

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Okay @Shaz51

Thought about having a bottle of wine but I won’t get up tomorrow and it would make me worse!

Going for a drive to clear my head, hope you have a good night Shaz

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I had two glasses of wine tonight @Former-Member, to unwind after a busy day but now ready for bed xx hope you have a good night sleep

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Hope you enjoyed them @Shaz51

thanks I will try, hope you sleep well, just going to watch a movie till I hopefully sleep goodnight

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