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Creating Self-Care Projects

Creating Self-Care Projects

Creating and maintaining a self care plan can feel overwhelming. However, having a good sense of what we can do to look after ourselves is fundamental to looking after our mental health and wellbeing.

Rather than being a one off plan that we write up and store away, self care is more like a lifelong project that we create and recreate in order to support our changing self care needs.

So how do you create a self care project? Here are a few creative ideas to get you started...

Make a self-care collage

Use magazines, newspapers, old letters, pictures or any kind of medium. Cut the items down to size and glue them randomly onto large heavy paper. Post the paper some place where it will be seen and use it to boost your mood.

Compile a playlist for every mood

If you're into music, this might be particualrly appealing. You can organise your music library on your computer or your phone - or perhaps even write a list of songs you can listen to boost your mood. You can title the playlist according to the emotion it represents or according to how you'd like to use it e.g. "to help when I'm feeling angry"

Design self care cards

Use white or coloured paper to cut out index cards. On one side of the card, write something inspirational or uplifting and decorate the other side with pictures or a collage. When you're feeling low, you can pick out a card (without looking) and read it as a prompt for reflection.

Create a self care jar

Decorate an old empty jar using coloured paper, stickers, or paint. Fill the jar with strips of paper containing postive affirmations, coping statements, inspiring quotes, or positive notes to yourself. Pick one out every day or as needed.

Now, it's your turn! What self care projects have you found helpful? Look forward to hearing your ideas! 👩‍🎨

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Mm that was @Sans911 idea too @Former-Member lol. Exactly. I quite like making them when i find things to stick in it. I use to scrapobook alot to but not so much anymore.

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@Former-Member

I got into my self care projects partly through DBT but partly by myself. I'm a very visual person so being able to look and touch things is quite helpful for me. Unfortunately I'm good at starting projects but not seeing them until the end. Many years ago I started a large scrapbook on the places I'd like to visit. Despite not finishing it, I have got to many of those places.

I also started some months back another scrapbook of things that make my life meaningful. Its not a scrapbook in the professional sense, but more a collection of visual scenes and also tactile objects to touch. One of these was the sand from where my foster sister's beach is, where I walk very often when I'm visiting. Another sand I've collected is from a place where I had a bit of a light bulb moment when I couldn't sleep and went for a drive and wound up there. Again, it's not finished, more a work in progress.

I keep other things like uni assignments from a long time ago that I got high grades for. Reading these again I still get a bit of a nice feeling.

Just this weekend gone I went to a team retreat and got a small paper bag of warm fuzzifrom others. I'll definitely be keeping and rereading those.

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Oh wow, that's amazing @Sans911

What a powerful idea "A scrapbook of the things that make my life meaningful".

That sentence, combined with what you'd mentioned about not finishing things, reminded me of some interesting research I heard about a while back. The viewpoint of the researcher was that often the very things in life that give us meaning are those projects we take up that have no defined "finish". So rather than focusing exclusively on tasks we can acheive and "tick off the list", they believed that adding in "life projects" like "be a good friend", "Look after myself" or "nurture creativity" helped us to feel a deeper sense of meaning. In many ways, creative self care projects like the ones you've described contribute to this and it makes sense that they feel fulfilling.

Thanks for sharing 🐼

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The idea of a playlist for each mood is great @Former-Member

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Love this! @Former-Member

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Hi @Sans911

I like your idea of starting a scrap book about places I would like to visit

I can get brochures from Travel Agents - they don't mind handing them out - and I thought when I was at the Travel Agent today that the brochures I was checking out while I was waiting could be scrap book items regardless

I might just start that - probably will

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Hello @Owlunar, @Jupiter, @Former-Member, @Sans911, @outlander, @Sans911

Great thread @Former-Member

What do you think @frog, @EternalFlame, @Twinklelight, @

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Hi @Shaz51

You are always friendly and say hi to others, HI

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Hi and sending you hugs @Former-Member

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Thanks @Shaz51

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