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I am feeling tired now after a big day @Twinklelight, but feeling ok to -- hope that makes sense, how are you today and all your fur babies
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Hi @Twinklelight - how are you travelling today?
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TwinklelightSenior Contributor
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I'm ok @Zoe7 Hubby and I ha e decided to do counseling together which is all I wanted all along. So that's good. I just hope he sticks to it.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That is good news to hear @Twinklelight I hope it helps you both. I also hope that you still have your plans in place if you still need to leave - your safety is most important Hon
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TwinklelightSenior Contributor
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I know @Zoe7 but I found out on the weekend that all his family wants him to leave me and it made him so angtay with everyone. So we sat down and talked and we are going to make this work no matter how hard it gets. He love me Nd I love him. We just need to shut everybody else crap out of our lives and not let them tell us what to do. I will always put my kids first but he is changing and he is willing to do more than change and that's all I asked for
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That all sounds really positive for you @Twinklelight and we will be here for you along this new journey I really hope that you can both move forward in your relationship and find a balance that both of you can thrive in
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TwinklelightSenior Contributor
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I sit here waiting waiting for you to see that time is running out come on and save me
It's not your fault I'm crying so don't you think that at all don't feel guilty for something you didn't do just hug me and don't let me fall
Your arms are so soft and cozy The look in your eyes, I can't forget I wish you didn't have to leave but I know the date is set
I let the tears fall down my face But you tell me not to cry And that everything will be fine I know it's all a lie
I know you can't stand it either That we'll be so far apart And sleep all alone each night Yet I know we'll still be together in the heart
You give me one last kiss and hug And wipe a single tear Wish me luck and say goodbye For its the last one I'll hear
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TwinklelightSenior Contributor
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I am so worn out from my day. It has been full on with the kids. Got the out erea to clean up tomorrow then the how should be all nice and clean
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I hope it helps you both. I also hope that you still have your plans in place if you still need to leave - your safety is most important Hon 
