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My life partner has Bipolar ii

My life partner has Bipolar ii

I unapologetically care for my husband who after a long mental health crisis has been diagnosed with Bipolar ii + more.

It is a tough gig at times but I believe we can live well in spite of his diagnosis.

I understand that not all relationships can survive a diagnosis and this is no criticism or judgement on anyone but in this thread I would love to give to and receive encouragement from others who hold the same value I have, that is that I voluntarily chose to remain in union with my husband to the exclusion of others and to ride out the bumps of his mental illness.

Dubious humour is guaranteed.

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Hobbies... well Im a gym nut... I used to race pushbikes... got run down 3 times im a year... so I moved on to gym work.... endorphins are a wonderful thing...

I love good coffee.... and I love boutique beer... and a good red...

Theatre... bush walking... beaches in Winter... big tick !

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Can relate to that @Totman

Hard to transition from full on care to stepping back our help is not needed so much.

Even though Mr Darcy has been stable for some time advocating for him at times is still necessary.

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I must admit to always looking... always asking.... just to be sure...

I love this time when we are in a good place... we have finally achieved a pretty good quality of life... some things we have to accept as side effects of medication.... but nothing is perfect.... and considering how little realistic history has been done in study of mental health... thankful is a big thing

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Side effects = yikes @Totman

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Must admit I struggle with the side effects.... yikes.... my word... politely put !!!!

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Evening all.

Nice to meet you @Totman

Like your comment ' I always ark back to the ole marital vow.... in sickness and in health'

This has helped me to get through a lot

Unfortunate thing is so many (particually proffesional) people don't understand this commitment.

Also at 20 years and counting here.

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Nice to meet you Determined.....
Sadly in todays generation there are many who see life solely from the perspective of what makes them happy.... to apply work to the partner they love... easily forgotten... its sad..

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Thanks for talking tonight...

Appreciated 😀

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

good morning @Totman , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Sophie1 , @Jay-e

how is everyone today xx

today is sunny, cool , cloudy but no rain --- yaaaa

slept in this morning

the sunshine will brighten up my mr shaz today , and knowing by this afternoon he will be getting anxious of all the jobs we have to do this week

last week was very quiet due to all the rain we had and the infection i had

are Bi polar 2 perfectionist ??

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

@Shaz51

Perfectionism has a lot of links to anxiety and OCD. Mr Darcy has traits of it but it doesn't mean his work is flawless - he would be intent on finishing a job rather than taking time and finishing it well.

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