Hi Snuffles,
I have not been diagnosed but I'm just at the beginning of realising what I have been for the last 29 years. It would be comforting to know why your doctor is thinking bipolar and what journey you are on.
I had a break up- through manic behaviour gone wrong one too many times I guess. Then my partner didn't know I was going through depression for a few months- I tried to deny it to myself.
The break up was hard- I was pushed to the edge of depression. It was then i discovered I had the many signs of Bipolar..Tested myself over and over on online tests. It all made sense and you would think that was bad news but it was actually comforting to know my behaviour wasn't all my fault. I've slowly disclosed it to my family and doctor and am with referral to a psycologist. My doctor said it was very likely. I cant see my disorder as anything else- I certainly go through bouts of depression and high activity, but longer with the depression.
It would be great to hear your story.