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I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't. I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped. I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
I saw gender Dr today... It could be a while until I start T.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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How are you feeling about that @The-red-centaur?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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I just want it to happen. I'll get there eventually.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That must be frustrating for you @The-red-centaur
Isn't it a great world we live in though that that is possible now - you can be who you feel inside you are - it may be taking a little more time than you would like but it will happen eventually - I wish you all the luck in the world for it to happen soon for you
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MDTSenior Contributor
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all the best with it @The-red-centaur
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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I have overnight leave today. It should go OK but I'm nervous
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Hi @The-red-centaur .....
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Nerves are okay @The-red-centaur What are you going to do for your overnight leave?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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@Faith-and-Hope hi 🙂
@Zoe7 I'm going to a card tournament type thing, and if I'm not too tired after that play the cyanide and happiness card game with some of the guys where I live. Then just chill Saturday morning.
If everything goes ok with my leave I'll be going home Sunday.
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