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Exercise and Goal Setting

Exercise and Goal Setting

Right. I am sure every one of us struggles with various aspects of life, one being physical strength and looking after ourselves.

I know I am feeling like a weather baloon in an El Nino weather event, large and unpredictable. I am unhappy with my weight since being desexed and being on an anti-psychotic which has me feeling hungry all the time and has changed my metabolism. I have gained a lot of weight, already have a back injury and live with chronic sensistised pain syndrome. I MUST start a do-able exercise regime. Gentley Bently.

I know goal setting is important, start small, short. Have longer term goals also important. I have decided to NOT have weight loss as one of my goals per se. Just concentrate on doing the exercise every day. I find it hard to account just to "myself" - if I am under supervision of a physio or psych I tend to do what I set out to do, like having someone to check back in with and 'report' to is important otherwise I shuffle off into "i don;' want to" or "it hurt once so never again" land.

Having given it much thought about what is doabale, what I SHOULD try to tackle without going totally overboard and extreme... And doing myself in before I acheive even a tiny modicum of self-care...

My plan is this.

Days 1 to 14 (next two weeks) Jan 7 to Jan 19 - 15 Minutes a day excercise (plus 15 min walk)
2 days a week in pool (15 mins only) doing hydro exercises and a very small and short swim breast stroke to look after my shoulders.
5 days a week doing a 15 minute Qi Gong set (I learned Qi Gong about 10 years ago and have just found the best little 15 minute Qi Gong video to 'follow" along with.
15 minute walk ever day (slow and shuffley though it might be.)

Days 15 to 30 (Jan 20 to Feb 2) 20 Minutes a day excercise (plus 15 min walk)
Same as above but for 20 minutes for each exercise.
Celebration goal on 2nd February.... Buy a new top.

Next Goals to be advised to make sure I get these ones done. Wish me luck and focus!

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Hi everyone!

Just dropping in to see how everyone is going. @MoonGal I agree with @Mazarita, its ok to have exercise slumps. You can't stay up and enthusiatic all the time. It's particularly draining if you're in pain too.

I've had a few days of yoga. Traditionally, I don't practice during my ladies holiday so had a couple of days off, and now I'm sick with some cold/bug virus. So just doing a very minimal session of yoga. It's also miserable weather where I'm at. So. much. rain. which means no climbing for me.

Thinking of joining the aquatic centre to enjoy the sauna. I like the idea of sweating with minimal effort. LOL Might nice to start swimming too. Though I'm not a great swimmer. Anyone got any tips on how to improve swimming?

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Start with breast stroke under and above the water and imagine you are a fish.

Enjoy the centred and streamlined feeling in your body as you push off the edges of the pool.

Or do you want serious stroke correction?

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Just had a memory of being eleven years old and swimming in a swimming competition! I am built to swim, well used to be, classic swimmers body - huge shoulders, slim hips (well, when I say slim... they are smaller than my shoulders, well, when I say smaller, they USED to be smaller than my shoulders!). These days I have a classic floating body.
My GOAL this week is to get myself to the pool for two 15 minute sessions, now my cold sore lesions have healed.
I am about to head out on a 1.2 KM walk with doggit. Although - truth be told I am sure I am being surveilled, which is ramping up my paranoia. Me (and me and my dog/s) have been photographed over the past few weeks - it is just weird I look up and some guy is taking my photo 😞 .
(I am in the midst of a TPD claim, I have tried to write off these as coincidence, but three separate incidences in the space of a fortnight... who wants to photograph me? I am hardly Angelique Jollie... Need to be very "in myself' to not let this phase me, I am doing nothing wrong! Just living to the best ability with a myriad of health issues.

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Hi, @MoonGal,

How awful to have people taking your photo while you are out. Is it the same person each time? I really hope it is not what you suspect, though I think it is reasonable to wonder about that. As you say, you are doing nothing wrong. On the contrary, you have been doing everything you can to improve your condition. Even if there is the possibility of evidence gathering by your insurance company, I don't want to believe that just going for walks could invalidate your claim. But I really feel for you with this. I hope the claim is resolved as soon as possible so that you don't have to experience this understandable anxiety.

I often stay in my own 'zone' too while out walking. Occasionally I pass people and smile or say hello but mostly I prefer to keep my focus on the natural environment around me minus direct contact with people. Even when partner and I go for beach walks together (much less often than I go alone), we often walk at different paces and in our own space with it all. It's great that you have doggits company on your walks. I love seeing the antics of dogs on the beach and feel so much less anxiety around animals than with people.

Latest update from me is that I haven't been for a walk on the beach for two or three days but have had shorter walks to and from the shops. It's been very warm and humid here and we are getting supercell storms which are likely to continue for the next few days at least. Not good walking weather just now but will be back into it again very soon. My support worker has also suggested that I start a very gentle yoga class before too long and I think this is a good idea. Will keep you posted when it starts and how I go with it.

Good on you for your plan to swim this week. My new bathers have had a couple of workouts recently, one in a pool and one in the ocean. So refreshing!

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@Mazarita - thanks for the reality check - i have wondered if it is just paranoia, but it does make sense that this could be the case. I will not stop doing the little bits I can to keep my body moving, I have felt better for walking (although I have also felt a lot worse for walking in other ways!).

I stay in a zone too - but once I am on the shop stretch of my local area - I do engage with lots of people because my doggit is adorable and everyone wants to pat her and say hello. She is a rescue so I use those opportunities to advocate for rescue.

Walking in oppresive humidity is hard work @Mazarita, so understand the lack of walks while the supercell is coming through. Wish for you a break in the weather soon.

My eating plan went well for a week, and then I just had to have some (soy) icecream, so have halved the amount and added fresh fruit too. Although, Saturday is Donut Day! Yay. So on the way back from today's walk I will be getting myself a (vegan) donut which will undo the walk but ... it will make my insides smile.

Hope the swimming goes well @CherryBomb. I hope to report my own pool activity. Having you all here does help me stay on track!

One thing I am learning is that it is important to "START" - and if I stop, it is important to START again. Keep on starting!

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@MoonGal,

Waiting for the moderators to let the photo through, sometimes takes up to an hour. But just wanted to say I reckon you come up with some great quotable quotes:

"One thing I am learning is that it is important to "START" - and if I stop, it is important to START again. Keep on starting!"

Yes to that!

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@Mazarita I also really love that quote! Such a positive way to look at things! @MoonGal

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@MoonGal - have you talked about your fitness goals with your GP? I'm sure that you could get some kind of a note saying 'if she's walking around a bit, then that is to manage XYZ and is not in itself proof that she is fit for whatever'.

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good idea @CannonSalt - I see my gp tuesday so will mention it ask that a note be made on file.

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hello @MoonGal, @CannonSalt, @Former-Member, @Mazarita, @Appleblossom , lots of exercise yesterday , rest day today , soo hot up here ,

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