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I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I have realised why I am like I am, I have had one traumatic life changing experience after another in my life. I looked in the mirror & went into shock as I didn't recognize myself. I have been running on near empty now for many years. The whole experience which led up to the Major life saving Spinal Surgery, which I had 15 month ago, has drained & frightened me so much that I am concerned about everything now. My family & any friends I ever had are distant, & have no sincere care or understanding for me, they do not care. I am all alone & not knowing what to do about anything, the nitmares, anxiety attackes, & feelings of not coping, can be crippling? Can you understand & relate to what I have shared, & would you like to help in some way, by sharing anything that I can use too, that will help?

Thank you,

Bella

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@Leventia

please do not provide details that break your anonymity like your name and geographical location, please refer to the Community Guidelines.

SP

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Please have a nice rest @Former-Member and im always here for you. Will have something to eat for lunch as well.

Bon appetit and chat soon

xo

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@SleepyPanda

Woops, sorry, I forgot I'm over tired I think, I should know better, I am only human

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@Former-Member

We are often a mix of nationalities, and it does make a difference in the NOW, knowing where people come from. I am a mix of Germanic and Celtic too.

@Leventia Lovely to see you around.

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@Appleblossom

I bet you & I are related AppleBlossom, you may be my long last relative!! How exciting!!

We are family! maybe

Well, if we both have German, & Irish (Celtic) then I bet that we are! I need family the ones I know about ignore me 😞 They label me, & think they are better than me, that's what it is AppleBlossom. I gave up all my luxuries to be free & safe, now I live humble, & hurting, & they all don't want anything to do with me, because they are snobs!

Yet they gossip about me, & make an, overwhelming, & abusive experience, which I had, become an X Rated Version, so that I can be looked down on, & forgotten about.

I do not need, Bio-Lodgical Family, no way!

So AppleBlossom,..... May I keep you?..... pretty please, with sugar on top!

Giggling here!

Bella xo

I have Millionaire retatives, & they would not even send me a, Get Well Card, seriously.

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@Leventia

Leve, are you still here, would you like to chat now?

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Yes @Former-Member would love to sweetheart

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I'm quite sad and upset @Former-Member. Meeting here means we are unlikely to ever meet in person.

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@Leventia

I got you into trouble b4 awwah!! sorry, I asked far too many questions, you are newish here I forgot about some of the rules.

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@Former-Member I get it.

Mine were more Dutch but a bit German, but underneath all National boundaries they were European.

My rellies are similar. First they were horrified mother could not cope and went to hospital and we were in care. They were eager beavers feathering their nests. There were all different and individual responses, but none very caring. They were embarrassed and defensive about their homes and riches, and when my brother and sister started having problems. One offered one night as break to sister. Another offered a coupokle of weeks to brother to recover from road accident, but put him down for not working hard enough.

Last year I was at an arts dinner. I sat next to a mayor who was telling me about his lovely Irish friendly extended family. It was pleasant, but inside my heart really ached. I have no close Irish rellies, since dad died when I was 11..

Bella. I think we have already gradually become genuine cyber family. We are very different personality-wise. I am more hard headed than you, but I love your spelling of Bio Lodgical ... I am also a giant softie. My words are all about social justice. I have seen so much struggle.

My baby brother took on the millionaire challenge and won, but it did not make him happy and it did not save his life.

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