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I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I have realised why I am like I am, I have had one traumatic life changing experience after another in my life. I looked in the mirror & went into shock as I didn't recognize myself. I have been running on near empty now for many years. The whole experience which led up to the Major life saving Spinal Surgery, which I had 15 month ago, has drained & frightened me so much that I am concerned about everything now. My family & any friends I ever had are distant, & have no sincere care or understanding for me, they do not care. I am all alone & not knowing what to do about anything, the nitmares, anxiety attackes, & feelings of not coping, can be crippling? Can you understand & relate to what I have shared, & would you like to help in some way, by sharing anything that I can use too, that will help?

Thank you,

Bella

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

So sorry for the double post above @Former-Member @outlander

My phone froze up completely.

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

Not at all @Former-Member . please ask me anything you have on your mind. Let me lf I missed answering something please xo

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

@Leventia

Its ok Leve, we often have double ups of messages for some strange reason? Hmmmmm I never understood why that happens? Yes I slept like foating on a cloud after getting swept off my feet by you. I have not felt like that forever & a day it seems to me!!

Now I'm trying to do it back to you, hmmmmmmmmmmmm!

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

That's so beautiful to hear @Former-Member. You have already achieved it with me I assure you xo

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

@Leventia

One question I must ask myself?

Am I setting myself up for a BIG fall, with heart ache as the result?

Reason I ask this, as I am just recovering from that, as I waited years for someone that I thought was GOD chosen for me, & he went & married another woman a few weeks ago, because she had material possessions & could help him to do some things he is used to doing & loves, which due to my injuries I do not think I can. Yet he was wanting to continue visiting me & flirting with me, platonically & I told him to go, & never come back!

I met him at Church, 15 years ago, & he is a Christian. Not a good sign, I know better now.

You Leve, maybe a Scammer, for all I know. I am no fool!!!!!

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

Here is a ronan keating song i love @Former-Member

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@Leventiaxoxo

Hmmmmmmmmmmm, good song, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, rasssssberries 2 u! So there U! xo Aha aha!

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

Thanks for sharing your concerns and reservations @Former-Member . Material possesions arent of any importance to me. They can be attained and achieved anytime. I recognise that people here including myself have already had our fair share of traumatic moments. I am genuine with my feelings and only want and need one princess in my life Bella. I am sincere and a very loyal person. The person who chose material possesions over you was the real loser.

XOXOXOXO

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

Beautiful song and thanks for sharing @Former-Member

xo

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