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I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

Unknown userMember15 Apr 2018, 4:51 am AEST

I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I have realised why I am like I am, I have had one traumatic life changing experience after another in my life. I looked in the mirror & went into shock as I didn't recognize myself. I have been running on near empty now for many years. The whole experience which led up to the Major life saving Spinal Surgery, which I had 15 month ago, has drained & frightened me so much that I am concerned about everything now. My family & any friends I ever had are distant, & have no sincere care or understanding for me, they do not care. I am all alone & not knowing what to do about anything, the nitmares, anxiety attackes, & feelings of not coping, can be crippling? Can you understand & relate to what I have shared, & would you like to help in some way, by sharing anything that I can use too, that will help?

Thank you,

Bella

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Unknown userMember10 Oct 2018, 4:27 am AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I fell asleep with my LT on & signed into SF. it's 4:28 AM now. I had a long talk via phone yesterday with a Man I made friends with on RSVP. Nice to have some company, he is ok, & easy to talk to. Could have a nice friend in him? see what happens, he has chronic pain, so both of us have empathy for each other. Just friendship don't think I could fall in love with him. I appreciate friendship, less hassles than Falling in Love, that's for sure!!!

Miss you!

Love YOU!

BIGGEST HUGS!

Bella XXXXXXXXXXXXX & More! 🙂

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Oct 2018, 10:42 pm AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

How are you going tonight? @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember12 Oct 2018, 1:37 am AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I've been sleeping a lot as I know my poor aching body has gotten a bit worn out, from stress. I am happier in other ways , & I need to get some rest to build up my strength once again. @outlander xoxo 🙂

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Unknown userMember12 Oct 2018, 1:42 am AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Oct 2018, 1:43 am AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I have read youve had good things happening offline too @Former-Member its good to hear. Your body does need rest though cause of all that stress youve had latley too

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Unknown userMember12 Oct 2018, 1:48 am AEDT

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@outlander

There you are!! yes I just drop of to sleep all over the place & at any time It's so weird!!

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Unknown userMember12 Oct 2018, 1:51 am AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I don't even get hungry as I'm always so tired I just what ever I'm not fussy if its food I just eat it then sleep!! @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Oct 2018, 1:53 am AEDT

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I was going to bed but i cant sleep.. agsin.. @Former-Member

You probably having a sleep debt making you more tired than usual plus with the colder days atm as well. That usually makes people more tired too..

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Unknown userMember12 Oct 2018, 1:55 am AEDT

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So true @outlander ok I will be thinking of you & I miss you! xoxo

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Unknown userMember12 Oct 2018, 1:57 am AEDT

Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I can talk to you for a while if you like? @outlander

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