@Former-Member Sorry you are going through hard physical and emotional times. Yes it is good you started the CT. I see life as about planting seeds and growing vines that nurture people. I will remeber you. You will always be for me the social emotional heart person who kept posting beautiful music and images. Bye Bella

Dear @outlander I too am wanting to withdraw from SF a lot. I dont like the changes to the site. The changes do not reflect the way I wish to use site even though I was consulted. It is what it is.
The changes are too subtle for me to go into and even bother about complaining about.
I joined the site as the whole world had gone crazy over the internet and I could not beat it so I joined, but I dont like assumptions and the way they "think" they are making it easier ... when too much change by definition ... often makes things harder . .. as we have to WORK to keep changing.
I prefer to work with people in real life.

The people have changed so much over the 4 years I have posted. Its sad and in my heart I have grieved for some and just had to let a lot go.
I will remember you @outlander as you got me to start watching the show and claim my rights to watch tele and movies and stuff ... somehow I had givent that up as too hard. SO thanks for that. I often feel passed over, and it takes a long time for people to get that about me. Bella made a fuss about me which felt awkward as I was so NOT used to it, but I know it came from a deep and beautiful part of her heart.

Don t worry I am not going right away, but just letting you know that I want to spend less time on SF.
Trying to be philosopical about change. I was introduced to Book of Changes I CHing ... when i was 18 ands am pretty good at change generally, but just want to slow it down. There are seasons for many things, and as time moves on we morph and change. I just dont want changes in my deep self to always be about technology.
Love to you both.
