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I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

I have realised why I am like I am, I have had one traumatic life changing experience after another in my life. I looked in the mirror & went into shock as I didn't recognize myself. I have been running on near empty now for many years. The whole experience which led up to the Major life saving Spinal Surgery, which I had 15 month ago, has drained & frightened me so much that I am concerned about everything now. My family & any friends I ever had are distant, & have no sincere care or understanding for me, they do not care. I am all alone & not knowing what to do about anything, the nitmares, anxiety attackes, & feelings of not coping, can be crippling? Can you understand & relate to what I have shared, & would you like to help in some way, by sharing anything that I can use too, that will help?

Thank you,

Bella

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@outlander

I am going through too much atm. No one can help me, I have to do it for myself. I wanted to let you know that I am not coming back to SF, or CT. I know that CT is a thread now that will continue for the ones whom need it.

I will work my life out, some how. I have some very serious health issues, which stop me from living my life the way that is best for me. I will make the best out of, the little I do have.

Take Care, & thank you always for your love, & your care!

Bella xo 🙂

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Hi @Former-Member
Aww 😞 im sorry your leaving but i know you have to do whats right for you. I do hope you come back when you can.
I will miss you so much, ive still got your drawings that you done for me too. Keep my little red panda avatar if you like?
Love and many hugs
💜 💛 💚 💙

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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

@Former-Member Sorry you are going through hard physical and emotional times. Yes it is good you started the CT. I see life as about planting seeds and growing vines that nurture people. I will remeber you. You will always be for me the social emotional heart person who kept posting beautiful music and images. Bye Bella

Dear @outlander I too am wanting to withdraw from SF a lot. I dont like the changes to the site. The changes do not reflect the way I wish to use site even though I was consulted. It is what it is.

The changes are too subtle for me to go into and even bother about complaining about.

I joined the site as the whole world had gone crazy over the internet and I could not beat it so I joined, but I dont like assumptions and the way they "think" they are making it easier ... when too much change by definition ... often makes things harder . .. as we have to WORK to keep changing.

I prefer to work with people in real life.

The people have changed so much over the 4 years I have posted. Its sad and in my heart I have grieved for some and just had to let a lot go.

I will remember you @outlander as you got me to start watching the show and claim my rights to watch tele and movies and stuff ... somehow I had givent that up as too hard. SO thanks for that. I often feel passed over, and it takes a long time for people to get that about me. Bella made a fuss about me which felt awkward as I was so NOT used to it, but I know it came from a deep and beautiful part of her heart.

Don t worry I am not going right away, but just letting you know that I want to spend less time on SF.

Trying to be philosopical about change. I was introduced to Book of Changes I CHing ... when i was 18 ands am pretty good at change generally, but just want to slow it down. There are seasons for many things, and as time moves on we morph and change. I just dont want changes in my deep self to always be about technology.

Love to you both.

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@outlander @Appleblossomxxoo 🙂

4 Both of you, I love you both 4 ever!!

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@Appleblossom
im sorry your wanting to withdraw too 😞 i get what your saying though and any decision someone makes should be what is right for them so if withdrawing or living life more offline is what is best for you then that is fine, and well respected
I wont ever forget you either, you have taught me alot since ive been here and you were also one of the people who welcomed me here when i first joined too.
aww im sorry you feel passed over 😞 i hope i wasnt the cause of that
your so wise and kind Apple, whoever has the pleasure of meeting you offline should feel honoured, i know i would be




@Former-MemberPlease please look afer yourself, i know alot of your situation, if you need please dont hesitate to come back, ill still be here for you. i really hope happiness find you soon and your prayers are answered, you deserve the good things in your life

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@outlander XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO & More!

Bye 4 now, thank you 4 being YOU!

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Rest assured, You @outlander

and

@Former-Member were never the cause of me feeling passed over

on or off the forum.

It has been a pleasure knowing both of you.

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