Reaching out... And giving support...

@eudemonism Morning eudemonism I will have to give your words some thought before I answer them. I have to get my son ready for his father. Will be back soon. greenpea

@eudemonism Sorry eudemonism it has taken me so long to get back to you, It is tiring being around people that need you. It is exhausting. Do you have respite for yourself? I think it is very important to be able to have time to yourself to recoup. I am doing that today. My son has gone away with his father over night so I will be able to have a long hot shower and just relax infront of the computer and tv later on.

Just take care of yourself and dont let others drag you down. Go for a walk with your puppy and sit in the Autumn sunshine for awhile to regather yourself. Read a book or play a game onn the computer. Take good care of yourself. Talk soon green pea

Hey @eudemonism I can relate to a lot of your last few posts.

Just popping by. Cuppa for you and @Bunniekins

hello @eudemonism

saw your name pop up.....good to see that you are still finding support on here...

as you say....putting yourself first....others have to do that for themselves too...

hope that something catches your attention today...rewarding you with spontaneous inner warmth.

I was at the pool yesterday exercising..I noticed the gum trees swaying in the wind....reminding me that nature continues to breathe and grow around all of the struggles us humans at times have...

take care

@Appleblossom Thanks Appleblossom I will take that cuppa please straight black no sugar please. I worry about eudemonism don't like to see you feeling down eudemonism 😞

About 2 1/2 years ago I finally started to practise self care proactively. It was like a switch flipped and I was allowed to carve out a pleasant life for me. I had been putting others first for a long time. Maybe you will be able to take life positively into both hands soon.

I have had to "trust" the system more than I am comfortable with over the last 5 years.

Hearing you and hoping you are alright Eude

@eudemonism Hi eudemonism it is hard to feel different and alone. Don't give up keep trying and the right person (it only takes one in a group to be a friend) will come along. Have you tried various clubs @Whiteknight has just posted a thread about difficulties socializing so you are definately not alone (the thread is definately worth a look at). Just remember that we are always here and really like you eudemonism for the nice and friendly person that you are 🙂