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How to cope when a service calls emergency services on you

How to cope when a service calls emergency services on you

I was speaking to butterfly foundation and they called an ambulance, I disconnected when they told me and I'm waiting for the ambulance now. I'm terrified. I don't want to go to hospital.

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Hi @The-red-centaur ..... there must have been some relief in understanding what particular aspect of the ed behaviour was causing the physical symptoms, so perhaps, even though it is cold comfort, it can lessen some of the anxiety for you.

My hubby has a different form of ed, as yet undiagnosed, and more and more strange symptoms are emerging that he is self-medicating for ..... and I know we can’t tell him to just stop doing what he is doing. All we can do is walk along with him until he is ready to face up to the u derlying causes, and we can walk along with you here too ....

Thank you for reaching out. It’s scary on both sides of the fence, and if I can’t have such open communication with mr. f&h, it is helpful to be able to sit with you in the honesty of your situation .....

Hugs .... 💕

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Hi @The-red-centaur

I’m sorry you’re having a hard time with bulimia and at the hospital.

May I ask you what age group you are? I’ve had bulimia nearly 30 years now, the first 10-15 were the worst and that’s when I started getting physical long term symptoms, reflux, chronically infected salivary glands... thankfully fainting, dizziness, bad blood results, low immune system got better with time.

I’m not healed, but there is no comparison to many years ago. Bulimia is a coping strategy for me and I only realised that when I started speaking openly to my treatment team about it. I’ve ‘confessed’ so many bad coping strategies that I can assure you, nobody is shocked or disgusted or whatever you may think they are. And if you’re talking to Butterfly, they may be able to give you referrals.

You mention that you’re not ready for treatment. Is there a particular reason for that (you don’t need to share this)? I’m only asking as it really is a serious illness and support is really important.

Take care x

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Re: How to cope when a service calls emergency services on you

@Former-Member I'll be 25 next week.
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