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Fragile

Fragile

For a while I have tried to find a thread I had started when I joined the forum that could be a "home" thread for me.

Being busy about the forum has been a coping style, where I can acknowledge all my different life experiences that had been silenced. Possibly do some good and prevent things from getting worse. Like the little boy with the finger in the dyke.

Feeling fragile

Needing Nurture

Generations: Son to SonMoments of BeautyGrapes are Greatand look out the window ...Namitjara

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Aww I am so glad to hear you have found a steady flow at home, that must be quite grounding for you. @Appleblossom

Ooh, what kind of people were you able to connect with in the online meeting?

I understand that panicked and unworthy feeling very well. 💛

Do you have a small win to share today?

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@AuntGlow there was a new person and 3 people I have known for over a year. I get along with them very well. We have a lot in common. Can’t say too much about it,Anonymity. Etc.

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@AuntGlow I have been very hungry for quality conversations for a long time. Conversations that are not too judgmental or self centred where the people involved have ethics and madness is not a dirty word. All the people involved have Lived Experience but are able to discuss more than their own subjective experience. I guess I am team leader but trying to spread the load and build the team in a collegial manner.

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good morning @Appleblossom

how are you going today my friend

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Oh @Shaz51 I am doing alright on the roller coaster of life. Was out in the garden and chatted to a neighbour. Going to local plaza this afternoon with my son, for birthday food and clothes.

what does the day hold for you?

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Your birthday? @Appleblossom

I have lots of weeds coming up in the garden

Will need to do some gardening

We have had soo much rain that there was some flooding around the outskirts of town

But the sun is out today which is great

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@Shaz51 @Yep, getting the right amount of sun and rain matters. Its usually out of our control though, lol. We can only do what we can. Out pesky weeds, out!

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Happy birthday to your son @Appleblossom

Have a lovely afternoon

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Thank you old friend @Shaz51

hugs

❤️🍏

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100%! Meaningful, connected conversations help us to feel purposeful, embodied, even healed... I hear you on this one. I crave it too. @Appleblossom

Madness is not a dirty word - I love this!! I am in a theatrical piece at the moment where we are working with bouffon - everything stems from that place of 'madness'. We can learn a lot from embracing our fullness without shame.

It's so rewarding working with those who have lived experience, isn't it?

I am sure they love having you as team leader! 🤩

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