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Fragile

Fragile

For a while I have tried to find a thread I had started when I joined the forum that could be a "home" thread for me.

Being busy about the forum has been a coping style, where I can acknowledge all my different life experiences that had been silenced. Possibly do some good and prevent things from getting worse. Like the little boy with the finger in the dyke.

Feeling fragile

Needing Nurture

Generations: Son to SonMoments of BeautyGrapes are Greatand look out the window ...Namitjara

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Hi @Zoe7 not even sure where I yam really. I just subscribed. yeah. long time listener. First time caller. jk. lol . sitting @ home on Sat night having a few drinkies

cat passed out in bedroom limbs all akimbo no doubt. update: a very local stray cat adopted me and thereby re-gained access to its old stomping grounds think. reckon it was abandoned.

Still doing Cert IV TAE prob over half way now.

done most of my presentations already ha ha

got 2 more online ones on tues.

havent managed to die or burn house down. been here 13mths now re house got with inheritance.

Still trying to deal with how I should deal with locals.

have let too much on to dr but thought had to , now they are going a bit silly/robotic. need to reclaim some ground. Easily done.

oh , getting heart stopped in like 2 weeks lol got AF trying to reset it

not much else happening. cya

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Dear @Zoe7

It's always very nice to say hi to you.

  •  @creative_writer I did a printmaking visual art ba at a place called whoppa in Perth then did years of studying psychotherapy but that was to understand myself when my son had cancer and he recovered.
  • Not that exciting. You ??

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@TAB 👍Great to hear some things are falling into place for you.

@PeppyPatti so cute ❤️ Love seeing you here too 🥰

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yeah, whats with that @Zoe7 ? I was comfortable in crappy rental in middle of nowhere

then uprooted back to caravan pk in perth.

then got nice small house in midnorth SA. think 1955 housos. at least solid brick, 1000m^2 block and detached lol

..and finally following up on study that last started 3 ish years ago. Well , after having come up with idea , if not a plan like 15 years ago lol

hope you are going ok .

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@PeppyPatti I’m completing a Masters in Social work, but have previously done psych. Psychotherapy sounds interesting, I want to learn more about psychotherapies and counselling

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Dear @creative_writer

I only studied it to help me through my sons when I got divorced and one had cancer he recovered from. Iv had psychotherapy for many years from a bad mother and grieving out my personal journey through that time.

My youngest son is quite vulnerable and not coping. I paid for him to have 24 psychotherapy sessions when he was about 10 but it's clear he needs trauma therapy and probably one of you social workers to manage his life for a long time. There is nothing I can do because he's 30 last week. He is an adult and hasn't spoken to me for Bout 4 years.

I want him to have the Judith Richards traa therapy and a prominent Psychotherapist has told me he will see him for free ( !! )

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@TAB Sorry had to get some work finished last night. I am okay - just finishing reports so a bit to do but getting there.

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@PeppyPatti I think studying psychotherapy to improve your life is a completely valid reason too.

A difficult pill to swallow as a therapist or a person who deeply cares about someone who is struggling with their mental health is that not everyone is ready or wants to work on their issues. It doesn’t mean it will always be this way, things can change, but it is the sad reality

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all good @Zoe7 Life. Happens 😊 I soend to much time on here anyway. Find myself replying to posts when should be out the door already going to appts etc.

I slept in today. Not sorry. lol .

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Hey @TAB

How come you moved to SA ?? Ide really love to do that........

 

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