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@Former-Member It's pretty hard when I do eventually open up I remember what happened when I did prior then too a longgggg time ago. I was attacked!!! I am attacking everyone Hence my song the other day on a music thread.
I don't expect responses and I don't feel left left out I have made it this far on my own and hid what i have been through repetively at times. It does not matter what I do when I don't talk about it I am doing something wrong when I do talk about it I am doing something wrong again
Can you call your Mum @Former-Member and get her to come over - you have your little girl to think about and she needs her mum.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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What do you think has made you go downhill so suddenly Hon - is it everything getting on top of you or are you still thinking about all the people that have hurt you and you can't get past that @Former-Member?
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @Former-Member, I'm really sorry to hear you are feeling this way at the moment, I can hear how much you are struggling. I have just sent you a check in email for extra support right now.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I know you are probably getting your little girl ready for bed right now but a check in would be great so I know you are ok @Former-Member - bit concerned for you Hon
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Unknown userMember
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No I am not ok @Zoe7
I don’t care anymore
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Can you help me out here a bit @Former-Member - what is getting you so down tonight - is it the usual feelings that others have made you feel like a different person than you used to feel about yourself or has something else happened to make you feel so down?
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Unknown userMember
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Hi Messygirl,
Did you get my check in email I sent earlier? We would really like to help you to stay safe tonight.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Have you put your little girl to bed yet @Former-Member?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member I need to log off as I am getting very tired - I will check in with you tomorrow - please take care Hon - I hope you are safe tonight - you matter to me
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Checking in to see how you are going this morning @Former-Member I hope you check in soon - I will be busy most of the morning as I have to go in to work to do some paperwork but I will be checking in when I can to see if you have been here yourself - sending you hugs Hon
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