My journey

@Appleblossom Good for you Appleblossom I always believe in being polite no sense in being rude. However you don't want to be somebody's bunny either as you say particularly with an ex. 🙂

I was reading about your son in the Journey thread (I hope you don't mind)I might move this conversation over to the long rave I just wanted to run something by you and see what you think. If you don't mind of course.

@Appleblossom sorry different thread ... I cannot find it now

It’s good you passed by on my own thread too and expressed @Appleblossom

You are entitled to you’re opinion like myself lol to be quite frank i used to be a people pleaser was always afraid to have my own voice and clearly couldn’t control my own decisions because I was too busy making someone else happy... hence the reason why I am a h**rtless b at times

takes a while to learn

yeah saying NO was great but hell after

I'm working on which Nos to say ... @Former-Member

and which consequences to move away from, if its not my responsibility.

It’s nice of you to pop by only really feel comfortable talking to @Zoe7 to be honest @Appleblossom

awww @Former-Member that makes me feel good Hon but it is nice chatting to others occasionally and @Appleblossom is one that I have a lot of affection for on here so lovely for her to pop in and chat to you too.

How was your day? I am still really tired and hoping to have an early night but that hasn't eventuated as yet ...obviously as I am chatting to you lol

She has a great manner and also managed to make me laugh.

I am also learning about comfort in conversation ..Its another new concept for me, I can butt out if you prefer. I dont mind. I can respect your space. I take posts pretty literally, a bit aspie like, I also dont like seeing people upset, so get involved in my bumbling way.

You can talk about you’re experiences I can talk about mine @Appleblossom that’s why we are different because you have you’res And I have mine

I am alright @Zoe7

Thats true. @Former-Member

Sometimes we feel better if someone is the same, but I am used to being different, as not too many people had my early experiences, So I connect on what I can ... and for the rest ... vive la difference... if noone is being hurt.

For some people with mental health issues its an improvement, just to start talking.

I was struck by you saying you open up but then feel rejected, so I popped by. I think it is cool you feel close to @Zoe7 so that is a sign part of the forum is working for you. I need tolog off cos I have been online for most of the day, but hope you are not feeling so isolated.