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catching up

JacquesSenior Contributor24 Nov 2015, 3:52 pm AEDT

catching up

hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.

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hiddeniteSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 4:03 pm AEST

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Sorry I couldn't post sooner please be ok jacques.
Karen

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JacquesSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 4:20 pm AEST

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Hi my angel, I am OK, it was so nice to sit with you, I am practicing my breathing now, I am looking into your beautiful blue eyes, I can see they are full of happiness and love.

I am about to go for my weekly outing, may not have Internet, I will be back by 7:30 - 8pm

Love you my angel, a little cuddle before I go 🙂

Jacques xxx

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hiddeniteSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 4:23 pm AEST

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Thank you for letting me know that you are ok.
Enjoy your time out I hope the sun is shining for you.
Karen

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JacquesSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 4:59 pm AEST

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I hope you have a calm evening and I hope we can spend some time together tonight, things are deteriorating here again, mum and my aunt are getting on each other's nerves again and I am in the middle of it.

I would really like to spend some time with you to forget about things, only if you are free tonight.

Missing you so much, I want to hold you.

Jacques x

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JacquesSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 6:57 pm AEST

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Hi Karen,

Things went from bad to worse, my aunt went silly at the resteraunt an mum lost it and moved to another table, mum cried and almost threw up on the way home, she is out the back now balling her eyes out, i nearly pased out twice driving home from panic attacks, the shaking was so bad in the resteraunt i found it hard to hold the fork, the drink i could not hold at all. i am feeling sick now, gosh what an aweful day, i don't know how much more mum can take, i don't know how much more i can take.

hope you day was better.

Jacques x

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 7:37 pm AEST

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Hi @Jacques has there been any support for your mum as a carer for her sister? Are there professionals involved with your aunt that could maybe get involved in a meeting to help work out disputes?

Sorry to hear that your restaurant trip turned sour.

From what I can gather as people age they can accumulate baggage and triggers. I remember earlier you posting about that aunt with respect and consideration. it is hard when things get too confined and people dont have space to process things. Your mother was obviously concerned to share her home to give her sister security.

We had Spag Bol with veg and wholemeal pasta tonight. Grated Colby cheese on top.

Thinking of you.

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JacquesSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 7:44 pm AEST

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Unfortunately my aunt refuses to get any professional help and refuses medication. It is due to her schizophrenia she thinks their is a conspiracy to get her on mess.

Things are really bad here, I am struggling to breath and feel like being sick.

I don't want to say anymore because of the guidelines I don't want to get into trouble, I have no one to help me. No one I can speak to.

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor03 Apr 2016, 8:05 pm AEST