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catching up

hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.

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Oh Jacques im so sorry I failed you.....

just remember to breathe its so important to to you grounded and in the present.

What can you do Jacques what has helped you in the past when things are this overwhelming.

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Jacques if you and I were like everyone else we would never have met. I wouldn't want to give up our friendship.

What can I do to help you Jacques?

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Karen you have not failed me, you are keeping me in the present, thank you my angel, I would be in a worse state without you.

I am eating, it is my coping mechanism, trying to control it, this is how I cope, thank you for staying with me Karen, you are so special to me.

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Karen, just talking to me you are helping, thank you, what are you and the girls doing?

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Oh yes the good old eating lots feels good at the time not so great afterwards. <br><br>You are doing so well Jacques im proud of you for doing this.<br><br>are you going to be ok to drive home when its time ?<br><br>You will need to keep your breathing regular. <br><br>You are doing a great job under the circumstances.

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The girls are having morning tea.

they have been playing with their dolls.

My eldest is very teary and still has stomach pain. Its her birthday in Saturday she never manages it very well. Its just too much for her

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I can hear that you're really struggling at the moment @Jacques. I just want to remind you that the Forums are not a crisis support service. If you need crisis support, please contact one of the following organisations:

Lifeline: 13 11 14

Samaritans: 135 247

@hiddenite I don't think you've failed at all. You've offered some excellent suggestions for Jacques to reflect on, even if it hasn't been possible to draw on all of them right now. You are a great support.

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Sounds nice morning tea and playing with doll's, if you want to go out with them you don't need to be wit me Karen, your girls are your first priority, I appreciate all you are doing for me.

Hugs

Yes I struggle with birthdays too, that might be contributing to my problems today, feeling so detached Karen, I will be fine to drive home, I go slow anyway so no problem their, I will just sit on 80kph

I wish you little girl could enjoy her birthday, it is not fair how some of us have to struggle while others don't 😞

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Sorry Karen I will go I don't want to get you in trouble and don't want to get in trouble myself, I will let you know when I am back to my prison safely.

Hugs my angel, thank you so much, your support is much appreciated, you are the best friend anyone could ask for 🙂

Bye, take care.

Jacques

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Jacques please don't go im happy to be with you the girls are fine.

talk to me Jacques it will give you some thing to take your mind off everything.

I want to help you
you are always a great support

keep talking j I am listening
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