JacquesSenior Contributor
catching up
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catching up
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Jacques in exhausted time for bed my friend
h u g
karen
h u g
karen
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Karen, please be careful, if you feel uncomfortable and don't want to give her money and let her in your home, then don't.
If the girls feel uncomfortable, then listen to them, this is your life now, please don't let anyone take advantage of you anymore, i am so scared people will use you fro your money and your good nature or foce you into doing something because of your anxiety.
it is always your choice Karen, please remember that, you have the ultimate say now. it sounds like she is living above her means and is not good with money, if she treats you badly then you should not feel guilty about wanting to look after your self and your children, you have all had such a bad time, i hope you and the girls can start a new life, maybe tell her to ask your mum.
hugs my angel, sometimes i am thankful i have no contact with my family.
i hope you rest well tonight, thank you so much for today, my special princess, you help me more than you know.
hugs, miss you already, can't wait for tomorrow 🙂
Jacques
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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If you are not willing to learn
no one can help you
If you are determined to learn
No one can stop you!!!!
hugs my angel, you are so smart, so strong, so caring. Thank you for just being you 🙂
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Good morning my angel,
i hope you are well this morning, i could not bring myself to watch that TV show last night, i was so frightened that it would make me too low, i managed a good nights sleep so i am feeling a lot better today 🙂
I hope today is as fun and happy as it was yesterday, you and the girls sounded so happy yesterday, and i hope it continues today.
Mum is going out for her weekly outing so i am going to be home alone 🙂
hugs my angel, you are amazing, kind, gentle and lovable, have i told you lately 😄
Jacques
i hope you are well this morning, i could not bring myself to watch that TV show last night, i was so frightened that it would make me too low, i managed a good nights sleep so i am feeling a lot better today 🙂
I hope today is as fun and happy as it was yesterday, you and the girls sounded so happy yesterday, and i hope it continues today.
Mum is going out for her weekly outing so i am going to be home alone 🙂
hugs my angel, you are amazing, kind, gentle and lovable, have i told you lately 😄
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Oh Jacques im so glad you didn't watch that show last night.
thats great you got some sleep.
my sister never speaks to me unless she wants something. Usually money. Ive decided not to give her the money. She has to take responsibility for her own debt. She has a good government job. She earns 80 thousand a year.
If I let her move into the house it will cost me ten thousand dollars because I got a discount on the stamp duty but I have to move into the house within 12 months of purchasing the house.
hope that makes sense its so complicated .
Have a relaxing day
hugs
karen
thats great you got some sleep.
my sister never speaks to me unless she wants something. Usually money. Ive decided not to give her the money. She has to take responsibility for her own debt. She has a good government job. She earns 80 thousand a year.
If I let her move into the house it will cost me ten thousand dollars because I got a discount on the stamp duty but I have to move into the house within 12 months of purchasing the house.
hope that makes sense its so complicated .
Have a relaxing day
hugs
karen
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi Jacques
how are you?
how are you?
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Hi my angel,
sorry if i am a bit all over the place today, i am just setting up my new internet config, please be careful with your money Karen, always remember this money has to last you and the girls for your lifetime, once it is gone that is it. it is so hard doing it tough, believe me i used all mum's inhertiance and we lived on very little for 7 years, it was extremly tough, we went without food showers and even without a fridge, this can get muhc worse.
i do hope your family is not taking advantage of you Karen, i really worry they are using you.
i do understand how stamp duty works, you get a discount because you are an owner/buyer, if you let your sister live their you would be classified as an investor, for the sake of you and the girls please just you and the girls move in, you all need time to heal, time to get comfortable and time to set a routine, to make things stable for you and the girls.
hugs my angel, i know it is tough, but you need to stay strong for you and the girls.
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi Jacques I missed you
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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i miss you too my angel, soooo much, what are you and the girls up to today? i hope you guys are going to keep cool.
my angel, you are in my thoughts and heart always. 🙂
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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We are just filling up the swimming pool. Its already 32 its going to be so hot.
later I think we will just be inside with the air conditioning.
I hope your air conditioning keeps up with the heat.
enjoy your day Jacques
later I think we will just be inside with the air conditioning.
I hope your air conditioning keeps up with the heat.
enjoy your day Jacques
