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hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.

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Y e a its a good one hope you enjoy it. Take your mind off everything
good night

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Good night my angel, please no night terrors, only sweet dreams

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Hi Karen, well i hope you are getting some rest by now, i hope you don't have any night terrors tonight, it is 1am and i can't sleep, i am about to try reading, to see if that helps me go to sleep.

Please take it easy tomorrow when you get some time to yourself, enjoy the simple things, the birds, the river, the wildlife, i know things are overwhelming, i know you are struggling, Karen you are not alone with this, i get overwhelmed easy too.

Try to do something nice for yourself, a haircut, a coffe at a cafe, or some shopping, whatever makes you happy Karen, you need some pampering.

My thoughts are with you my friend, i only want the best for you, you deserve it.

Jacques

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Thanks Jacques I hope you managed some sleep.
school day and I should be going to Centre link but at this rate im going ti burn out so we'll see what happens

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Yes I got to sleep at 2:30 so I got some rest, a few panic attacks though :/.

Yes Karen take it slow, if you go to centrelink please ask them to change getting letters from email to post, this will save you a lot of grief, please consider a disability support pension, you would be eligible.

You do need to get some money flowing in, at this rate you will have no savings left.

My thoughts are with you my angel.

Take care

Jacques

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Hi Karen, i found a website you can view that shows how to see online letters, here is the web site, you log into the Mygov website and click on inbox, any letters will be their

http://www.humanservices.gov.au/customer/services/centrelink/online-letters

I hope this helps

Thinking of you my angel, if you need any help i will be here

Jacques

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Thinking of you My friend, i hope today is kind to you.

Take care

Jacques

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Hi jaqcues
centrelink said im unable to get payments.
Sono money for me. I don't know what ti do. They said in ineligible .

wow im so overwhelmed

the ibs is horrible I nearly didn't get the girls to school on time. They have never been late.
Im shutting down there is just too much to deal with.

I feel the weight of the world in my shoulders.

I'm sorry you didn't get much sleep Jacques. I havebeen thinking about you

I wish you were at centrelink you would know what ti say and do. I couldn't talk just shaking.

anyway got to go into school now and get the girls

take care
karen

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OK Karen, please don't stress too much, here is what i want you to do, go to centrelink tomorrow or call 132 717 and they will send the forms to you, best and quickest if you go in and ask for the forms for Disability Support Pension. then go to your doctor and get the relavent form filled out, while you are with your doctor see if he can organise your treating team to help with the forms and taking them to centrelink, i did that and it was so much help for me to have someone to ask questions.

Karen this is not the end of it, just because you where inelligable for one does not mean you are not Inelligable full stop.

Karen i know the feeling, i am very good with legal paperwork, i do know you would be elligable for the DSP, because if i am you defilately would be, you need to do something, you can't live on your savings, they will go so fast, i did that for 7 years, and i am crippled financially.

I hope the girls are more settled this afternoon, i know how it is, the stress involved in all this is emence, please talk to me, i do understand, just stay strong.

Karen, i know the centrelink thing inside and out, i have been on welfare all my life, i will help you, just ask.

Please be kind to yourself. i am worried about you my angel, you are always in my thoughts.

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Hi Karen, my angel,

I know you are really struggling and hurting, it is so tough, and you have so much going on, My thought are with you Karen, i don't know what to say, i am feeling very lost myself, sorry, i just want you to know you are not alone, you are my friend and i will support you no matter what.

Take care, be safe

Jacques

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