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@Snowie Such a horrible, tricky position for you to be in Hon. It is not the kids fault what yor B did but having them around would be so triggering for you - and your mother certainly would not understand that as she has shown throughout just how much she does not see the truth for so long so it would not even be worth discussing with her. Having tomorrow coming up would no doubt be adding to your stress levels - anniversaries are bad enough without all this happening on top of that. Tomorrow though can be a day to celebrate just how much your Dad meant to you and just how much he gave to you - keeping his memory alive with kind and loving thoughts is celebrating Him for you all - focus on those things and the love you still have for the wonderful Dad he was. It does not take away the pain of the day but it may help you get through it a little easier. Hugs and hugs and hugs sweetheart

Thanks @Zoe7 @Emelia8

My mum has done this before so shouldn't really expect any less of her. I know she has a right to see her grandchildren and look after them, but I just wish she would ask me first. To me it is just common courtesy.

They have gone home now so hopefully things start to improve a little.

It’s obvious your kind heart has been inherited from your Dad @Snowie

Big hugs and here for you.

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It is common courtesy @Snowie but you mother has shown she does not possess that on many occasions so it is not surprising ...very disappointing though Hon

Hoping your Sunday goes well for you @Snowie as you remember all the good times with your dear Dad.

Will be thinking of you today dear @Snowie 💕

@Snowie Thinking of you today and sending love your way Hon

Thanks all for the well wishes.

Sitting here in despair with the tears freely flowing. Making it worse for myself by looking at old photos. Why do I do this to myself.