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My special place

SnowieSenior Contributor15 Feb 2018, 9:51 am AEDT

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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Sans911Senior Contributor04 Mar 2018, 11:26 pm AEDT

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Goodnight @Snowie. Take care darling 💠❄️💕💕

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor04 Mar 2018, 11:28 pm AEDT

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Goodnight @Sans911 @Snowie ...., 😴

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Sans911Senior Contributor04 Mar 2018, 11:39 pm AEDT

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Goodnight @Faith-and-Hope. I hope you have a good sleep.

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 8:48 am AEDT

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Good morning @Snowie. How are you doing today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 8:57 am AEDT

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Morning @Snowie i hope yesterday went well and today is ok for you ❤

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 9:07 am AEDT

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Morning @Snowie .... 💜❄️💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 11:11 am AEDT

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Morning all @outlander @Sans911 @Faith-and-Hope
Yesterday was ok. Went and saw hubby, kids and dog which was nice. My mum came along to which made things not great.
Her words were "i am not coping with you being in here" did not know what to say back. How fkn insensitive of her but i shouldnt expect anything else, it is and will always be about her.
So ended up only staying for about 2 hrs and went back early.
Nightmares over night and resorted back to my normal way. Why is it so fkn hard to ask for help. Am going to try and make myself go to some groups instead of sitting here feeling sorry for myself.

I hope you are all ok. Struggling atm to keep up with things on here and all the threads. My change of meds are making things fuzzy.

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 11:19 am AEDT

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Hi @Snowie ...... 💐💕

I was just chatting with Zoe7 about validation on another thread, and the effects of not receiving it .....

Please recognise that in your nother’s reaction, and hand it back to her ..... it’s hers, not yours ....... so don’t wear it Lovely ...... don’t take it and put it on you, just because she expects you to ......

You have plenty of validation from others, including your hubby, kids, and staff at the unit where you’re staying now. Make that count, and leave your mother holding her invalidation card all by herself. Others will start to tell her that she is being inappropriate, and your kids will already know it cos they believe in you. They were probably thinking to themselves something like, “this isn’t even about you Nanna .... and that is being mean to our Mum ....”

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Zoe7Senior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 11:20 am AEDT

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It's days like those @Snowie that feel like one step forward and three steps back. It only takes one insensitive comment to set us right back to nearly the beginning

I can say don't let this get to you but I know they are just words and the reality is that those words really do get to you. Maybe your reply if your mother says something like that again could be "now you know how I have been feeling for (insert your own time frame here ...months/years) " - turn it back on her!

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SnowieSenior Contributor05 Mar 2018, 11:23 am AEDT

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Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, unfortunately she says these things and worse to me when others are not around. She would never say it in front of my kids or hubby, that would be showing her true self 😔

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