My special place

That does not look good for you @Snowie - struggling Hon?

Can you say why it is not a safe place @Snowie Is it because someone knows you are here again and therefore cannot say anything?

Have read Hon so delete if you need @Snowie

Can you close your account and come back with a new identity sweetheart. I know you had to do that once before to help protect your anonymity.

I hear what has happened and will not talk specifics for you but that is incredibly difficult for you to deal with - control over our own information is so important - we had control taken from us and now having some control over who knows what is our own way of protecting ourselves - so I can imagine how devastating it is for that to come out.

Whatever you do Hon we are always here for you

Oh Shite @Snowie I understand. It is such an invasion of privacy though Snowie so I can imagine there is a lot more going on for you than just finding out who you are again. It makes it incredibly difficult for you - you need support from those that care and love you but getting that is frought with danger because of what he knows about who you chat with. I fully understand your dilemma Hon - you can't win either way.

Maybe it is more about keeping the connections here without actually saying much yourself for the time being. We can still support you without you needing to say much - just send up the bat signal sweetheart