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My special place

SnowieSenior Contributor

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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tymeModerator

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That sounds tough @Snowie .

I'm sorry to hear it has unsettled you. Do you think you will see him?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sitting with you @Snowie
you have no obligation to see him. you do what you feel is right for you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Captain24

@tyme I'm not sure I could go through with it. I have seen him once in about 5 years at a shopping centre and that freaked me out a lot and brought a whole lot of emotions to the forefront.

With my MH being like it is at the moment, it is a huge decision. I think I need to speak to my psych about it first.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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thanks @outlander 💕

He messaged me on facebook so can see that I have read the message. I really don't know how to respond.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i think leaving the conversation is also fine @Snowie or go back and mark it as unread. you know what it says, wait to see your psych first before you reply.
with you already struggling and i know how the last interaction affected you it may not be the best decision at this moment

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Snowie Sorry to read that your brother has made contact, and also about what your mother's been saying 😡

You definitely are a compassionate person!

Sad also to read about your sleep....sending wishes for you... 💙

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Thinking of you this morning @Snowie and sending lots of qentle hugs 🤗🤗

💜💜

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BowSenior Contributor

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@Snowie You gotta do what is best for you and your mental health. You have no obligations to see him. And it’s totally ok to leave him on read, I do it all the time to my ex. FB messenger is pretty much the only way we communicate and I absolutely hate it when I get a message from him. Wish I could preview the whole message before having to actually click on it and open it!
talk it through with your psych and come up with a decision that is best for you.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Snowie Hoping you're OK and safe and the contact from your brother hasn't sent you into a spiral... 🤞💙

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Hi @Snowie.

Im hoping you are ok?

Sending you my love

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