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My special place

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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You are so right @Snowie and we can’t change what’s done.

How’s your investment property going? I’m tempted to take out my super and do the same as I’ve lost so much lately in shares that I think property is a better way to go.

Take care 💜💜

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It is going good @Eve7

We have demolished almost everything inside and done a big clean up outside. Kitchen, bathrooms, laundry and flooring have all been gutted. We are onto our third skip at the moment. Got some sample pots of paint and painted a bit outside and inside yesterday to see what colours we go with. Still a few walls to remove and then we can start replacing plaster board. Some windows and sliding doors need to be replaced too.

It really was a mess. Still a long way to go but getting there slowly. We have a few properties now that no doubt we will sell when we retire. I have never brought shares so not sure how I would go in the share market. Hopefully they increase in value for you hon.

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WOW!!! You have accomplished so much @Snowie You and h are a couple of go getters!

It’s my work super that’s tied up in shares which are supposed to be safe. I’m going to talk to my financial advisor and do whatever he suggests.

🌞🌞🌞

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Might be a good idea to do that @Eve7

I think we have to somehow set up for our future. I am hoping to be able to pass these investments onto our kids at some stage. Help them set up their futures.

Might go and try and have a nap. I hope you get out into your garden hon.

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Heya @Snowie and @Eve7, sounds like you've both had a really rough night. Are you both feeling safe for today?

I thought I this post might be useful today, if you're up for it? ❤️ Creating safety online when talking about SH

I'd really love to hear something you might try today to keep safe or if there is any way we can support you today ❤️

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I am safe at the moment @Former-Member

I have my safety plan that I use and also trying to distract myself too.

Intending to have a nap and then do some more sewing. Also been doing some online shopping. Not sure if that is a good thing or bad thing!!

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I am safe @Former-Member it just happened so quickly last night.

My pdoc has a cancellation for tomorrow so I will talk to her one last time before she goes away for a few weeks.

Out in the garden now, attacking the weeds.

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Thank you for letting me know @Snowie ❤️ Sounds like you have a nice day ahead, especially with some Christmas sewing. I also hope your nap is really restful ❤️

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@Eve7 sometimes it does come so quickly, hey? Glad you got in to see the pdoc. Hope it's a good session ❤️

And I'm not sure where you are, but it's very sunny where I am, perfect for gardening. Hope you get through a lot of the weeds ❤️

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Hugs to both of you @Eve7 @Snowie .

I'm here if you need a chat 🙂

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