Oh, goodness, that's hard to manage @NatalieS
Thank you, I'm doing better than yesterday, dreadful back pain from the fallout from 'stuff' in the previous week.
If you're able to cut hours (lots of things can impact that of course), it could be a useful thing to do. Perhaps you can get help with other things to lighten the load? I surely understand about the need to control the environment, it's how I survive, but it's difficult.
Perhaps there's a support service you could use to help with hubby's care, or the house work (think washing/ ironing/ floors & surfaces/ cooking) if you could allow someone in the house. In the long ago I had a housecleaner for a time cos couldn't manage all of it, yeah, well, I'd clean a lot of stuff before she came in, didn't I *sigh* I could handle having someone do my ironing though. Eventually I phased out the 'things that needed ironing' and that fixed most of that.
I hope you can find at least 5 minutes a day that are 'just for you' minutes @NatalieS
how are you @Bubbles3
My wish for tomorrow is for pain levels to be low enough that I can stand long enough to wash up in one go, and maybe do some cooking in stages. Small wishes are good right now.