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i was reciently sexually assaulted mid december last year by my boss. I have reported it to police and they are working on the case. The reason im here is to get others stories on how they have coped through it as I am really finding it hard to deal with and have restless nights and really paranoid to be around males that I do not know but with this i am losing some friends because they dont understand why i am having trouble being around them. please share stories and i am more then welcome to open up about what i am going through
Thanks for sharing your story, shows a lot of courage and caring.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Well done for sharing your story, thats not an easy thing to do ❤ and welcome Theres a thread here called under 30s if you would like to meet some more people around your age too. 🙂 @gymgirl240
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gymgirl240Senior Contributor
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@outlanderyea it is hard to talk about it and i would love to meet people around my age who have gone through this
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im not long gone on 21 @gymgirl240 and i was sexually abused when i was abit younger so happy to talk if you would like so feel free to ask or chat whenever just tag me . The under 30s thread is a social thread meaning its lighy hearter and just general chit chat. I can tag you there if you would like?
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gymgirl240Senior Contributor
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@outlanderyes please that would be wonderful and the onlt trouble im having is still talking about it face to face with people and sleeping
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Sure @gymgirl240 will find and tag you in there. Talking about it face to face is really tough. The most important thing for you to know is that its not your fault at all. Ok. Sleeping is rough. Im wondering if you coud speak to your gp for something for sleep? Your still in the really early stages so things will be more rough but with help and support youll be ok and be able to move forward ❤
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gymgirl240Senior Contributor
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@outlanderthank you and yeah just in the early stages suck and yea am going to see my gp tomorrow about something to help me sleep
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