Daily goals, motivation and check in

@bhayou might like this thread also.

@Teej You can get to that group. YOu go girl! xxxxxxx

Thanks @Bunniekins i went girl 😆 it has helped heaps to make me feel human for the first time in a bit. We played a new board game that completely took me out of my head and having to concentrate, it also bought out a bit of competitiveness in me which doesn’t happen often 😳😳😳

@eudemonism @Mazarita, @Faith-and-Hope how are you going with your goals today. Here for a hug and encouraging word if it’s not so good. Have left my competitive streak with the board game I promise.

Am currently procrastinating by writing this post in my car instead of attacking my dishes.

Best wishes all.

Sooo glad I made it to group and got out of my house.

Hello @Teej, @Bunniekins, @Maggie, @eudemonism, @Faith-and-Hope

today I have

• made the bed
• 2 hours cleaning for a customer
• 4 hours cleaning for a customer
• a Load of washing onat home
• and now relaxing before dinner
• having heated leftover Bacon and egg Pie which I made yesterday

Way to go @Shaz51. I’m tired just reading all you’ve accomplished today 😜. It’s lovely when you don’t have to think about tea. Enjoy your relaxing 💜😳

Awesome that you got to group, @Teej. It is so good to get out of the four walls, isn't it?

My goals remain untouched for the day. Instead I only just started the stuff I would have needed to do to even get to goal one. That is, I've had a wash and got dressed instead of being in my dressing gown at 4pm. Will keep trying over the weekend on the other things. At the moment I'm not even making my bed, which I've been doing almost without fail, daily, for some years. Not in the liveliest of places at the moment.

thanks @Teej, I have told mr shaz that I am having a sleepin tomorrow

@Mazarita I’ve been in that space so much for the past few weeks. I know your change of meds is having an impact too so gently does it. I was 30 mins late to group, hair not brushed and knotty and didn’t clean my teeth. I usually try to at least turn up to places with those things done. Sometimes getting over the hump is huge. I’m glad I got there even if I looked and felt like crap but it doesn’t always work out this way.

So we both try again tomorrow. I have a todo list with 33 things on it I can’t face again. I only see the number and then don’t open it. Perhaps we can encourage each other to keep it simple.

Hugs. 💜🤗

Agreed, @Teej. 33 things sounds too much. How about getting it down to 10 and then revise list when those are done?

Tomorrow I think I'm going to go right back to basics and start with things on my list like:

• get up
• wash
• get dressed
• make bed

Then everything else on my list can follow on. If I don't tell myself to do those basic things sometimes, I can't get over the hump to doing anything at all.

Good work going even ungroomed to the group. Just doing it anyway.