outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I have DBT tomorrow morning and then I am going to try to get to Bunnings to get the seedlings I want to start my potted garden - depends on the weather though - I won't go if it is windy and wet like today.
Do you think that how you are feeling today and tonight is kind of an after shock of all the emotions about getting your new car and the issues you have had combined with the family event the other day and all the usual stressors you have - maybe them all combined has sent you into that downward spiral and you haven't had time to breathe let alone look after yourself?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
It does matter @outlander otherwise none of us would be here supporting you. Maybe we could break it down over the last couple of days and try to work out what has lead you to feeling like this - otherwise I am happy to talk about Toby (or anything else) all night!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
You got it Hon - the lighter stuff it is @outlander ![]()
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Sans911Senior Contributor
@outlanderHow you are feeling and what is happening matters a great deal. And I have known things haven't been great because you're much quieter. This has me very concerned about you.
There is a very distinct possibilty that your medication is the source of these feelings. I would be seeing a doctor, any doctor and very soon to sort this out.
Right now, I have lots of time tonight to sit here with you. Just stay with us, and like @Zoe7 has said, let's take this in 5 minute intervals
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Cat is in her cave sound asleep - she is very cute all curled up in their. It has been cold so she is spending more and more time in there - it must be pretty warm for her. Toby is ...you guessed it... right beside me on the couch - all spread out like a fluffy cushion lol
@outlander I am hoping tomorrow will be a bit nicer than today - would love to get my potted garden started but if I can't I can wait a few more days and then take Toby with me ![]()
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