outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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It was ok just hard @Sans911
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I know you need to head to bed though so can keep working on this until i fall asleep...
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodnight @Sans911 thank you for helping me sis ❤
Goodnight @Appleblossom 😘
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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There are many different relaxation techniques. @outlander Isn't it interesting how looking at pictures can be so calming.
@Snowie and @Sans911 are great and patient - and so are you.
Sometimes I worry about you when you are being super all over the forum helping others, but hiding your own pain.
There are no magic answers - its just go with things that make sense for you with your own outlook on the world and your own personality.
It also does not just work ... its about habits and life style.
For a long time I could not meditate so it was hopeless to even try ... reeeeellly its horses for courses.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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They are great @Appleblossom and so are you ❤
Lol yes i do fly around forum land quite often. I find it better to help than be helped. Im use to hiding my own pain. Im 'trained' to hide it esp offline. Pretty much comes as second nature even when im not fine.
Pintrest is very good for pictures. Keep me occupied quite often.
Thank you for your help tonight too.
Lol yes i do fly around forum land quite often. I find it better to help than be helped. Im use to hiding my own pain. Im 'trained' to hide it esp offline. Pretty much comes as second nature even when im not fine.
Pintrest is very good for pictures. Keep me occupied quite often.
Thank you for your help tonight too.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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I am more comfortable in the helper role too.
But all roles are only part of our human personality. @outlander Have you looked at personality or role theory at all?
Thank you for being here for me. We night owls have to accept it is part of our way and not self whip about being up late.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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No.. i havent looked at that yet @Appleblossom ...
It use to frustrate me being up all hrs of the night. Now not so much the more i fight it the worse it gets so just have to role with it.
Whats got you up this late?
It use to frustrate me being up all hrs of the night. Now not so much the more i fight it the worse it gets so just have to role with it.
Whats got you up this late?
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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I have always been a night owl. Done a lot of night shifts in different types of work. Maybe thats it. Dunno. I will prbably go down soon tho.
My son is a night owl and his sleeping is a little out of whack and he is mucking about on both keyboards atm ... computer and piano.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ive been a night owl for a while too just got worse the past 4 yrs. @Appleblossom
He sounds dedicated to his music. Its 130 here so wouldnt be able to play anything due to neighbours and pop.
He sounds dedicated to his music. Its 130 here so wouldnt be able to play anything due to neighbours and pop.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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The piano keyboard is not that loud. We have a bit of separation from neighbours. They could probably hear it but it would be very soft and not disturbing. We have lived this way for over 10 years and nobody has ever complained about our night hours.
His night hours have had an effect on me ... I am just trying to roll with it rather than get cross ... I just want things to work out.
