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@outlander I have still got a tension headache right between my eyes its really horrible. That Video was such terrible thing to see when I was just feeling ok & happy after all that stress, talk about something out to get me, bad timing I don't understand why they can be aloud to make such shocking abusive Videos? I am sheltered as my parents always protected us girls from the world & its horrors. So when the world tarted to torment me (so to speak) I went into shock & self protect mode. I may be a nice person but I am not a door mate! No way, I will not stay for long if I sense any sign of abuse of any kind now you know why I live the way I do, but of cause the body damage & lack of money limits me too 😞 But I know things will change for the better because GOD promises they will & now you understand my Faith & Trust in GOD keep me so strong! 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Triggers have a way of popping up unexpectedly dont they @Former-Member Have you taken some pain relief for your headache?
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@outlander I did when it first happened this morning but I will have to now again as I this pain is off then I may draw too when the pain goes away! xo
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Sounds like a good plan @Former-Member sometimes it takes 2 doses to help clear it up - separte timing of course
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@outlander Anyway that taught me not click on a link unless it has a picture & heading title to tell what it is. She should keep those sort of Videos for private use only as far as I m concerned. I would have thought they would be against SF rules?? strange that they haven't taken it out? Its far too graphic & not good for the mind. 😞
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im not too sure with songs and the rules with those.. if i dont know the song i wont click on it @Former-Member you can always ask offline.. Im debating whether to give my 3d butterfly a background. Im worried itll wreck it and ive spent over 3 hrs trying to do it. I dont think i can share it here either as its a gift to mum shes been wnting for a while and she shares it alot on fb
What drawing are you working on?
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@outlander Could you please write in the rules of your Forum that all links must have information about the content so that myself or anyone else doesn't have that happen to them thank you 🙂
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@outlander I will go draw now & come back later & show you ok 🙂 Sorry to burden you with my pain lately I just want to get well & be happy! 🙂 You have been amazing to me, my best friend @outlander, I like that it makes me smile 🙂 xo Love you! xo
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Sounds great @Former-Member and im happy to help love and hugs ❤
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I would also expect the same back @Former-Member I don't think you are understanding i was expressing my own story. Like another music link i posted. Almost feels like you assume I intentionally did that when I didn't. It is how I was feeling. I am upset over it and have been all day. I too have others walking on egg shells everyday from my own ptsd and traumas. I did explain that wasn't my intention. I have seen evil right before my own eyes and am fighting ptsd myself so I would appreciate it. I am not a door mat either and I have had many torment me over the last few years. I don't believe in need to be ashamed of also what I have been through either
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