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@outlander hugs hun. 🤗 Think we are both in for long nights 😴 I cant settle either 😔😔
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Then you can come sit with me @Snowie and keep each other company Is there something on your mind you want to talk about at all or we can just 'be'
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie i have the kids all weekend meaning i still cant take sleepers. Looka like itll be one of those weeks 😞
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlander there is sooo much in my head after yesterday but i just cant get it out. If i do i am scared what will happen. It is so confusing and my head feels like it is about to explode. Some of my deepest darkest things have been exposed and i am just devastated.
Im sorry u have the kids all weekend. Super difficult for you 😔😔
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I know sis its scary for you and such a crappy situation to be in @Snowie you said some things have been worked out though which is a step in the right direction. You can talk briefly if you would like without a lot of detail if itll help?
I dont really know how ill cope with 2 bored kids being tired and not managing much right now. I tried to talk to mum but she brushed it off.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Thanks @outlander but not right now. I will just get too upset and u really need to try and keep as much as i can under control atm. Can u try and speak to your mum again, perhaps you can have them for only one day. You can always tell her you are sick and cannot have them
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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"I will just get too upset and u really need to try and keep as much as i can under control atm." Seems like we both need sleep hey!
No itll just turn into an argument again. I tried to tell her that i wasnt sleeping but i cant take the meds when i need to do the kids. But she brushed it off and dont want to push it otherwise itll be an argument and i cant handle that right now. It drives me crazy. I cant take anything otherwise i cant drive in the morning. I would need to take them at 6pm and go to sleep pretty much straight after.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Well since you didnt tag me @outlander, i think we both do need some sleep! The dog must know it is curled up next to me, been that way for ages!!! Stuck movies on and thats it. Have they got an xbox or something like that they can play?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Um yep @Snowie sleep is needed Glad shes keeping you company, they seem to know dont they. They have their tablets and movies and may do cupcake decorating but over the entire weekend. Im hoping it rains or is too hot. i know that sounds bad. If i get abit if sleep might manage a drive and walk abit further south of me.
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