outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander, I am f***** spewing over that psychiatrist letter,how f***** insensitive and inappropriate and most of all judgemental!.That letter should be with the you the client being the reader in mind.I have told you my stories including the "no motivation"wrote on a medical certificate from a b**** doctor I saw for five minutes.My mental health nurse stated I had a fear of men one day,I didn't,worked among men for over twenty years,he was only thinking what was in his own pants.WTF does describing your appearance have to do with it?unless you are homeless or it's clear you are lacking hygiene due to mental illness.Thats tough and understand after I heard only three words from three different doctors my my nurse said over a period of 12 months that I "lacked intimate relationships".All that is doing is what it did to me further alienation and isolation,not help ,humane or acceptable conduct.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander - your damn GP is insensitive and unprofessional. What the heck has your weight got to do with your mh, unless you had an eating disorder? That's just adding into your insecurities and low self worth. Like Nell said, it's a peice of paper. Put it away. But worth mentioning to your new pyschologist that you feel unfairly represented, judged and devalued by it. Appearance is part of a mental health assessment, but it's more about how much care you're taking of yourself, not how tight fitting your clothes are. I'm so, so sorry that you had to deal with that. You mean so much to me lil Sis. I so want to come and take you away with @Former-Member to give you a better life; for all of us. Sometimes my words seem so hollow and meaningless. I want to help in a practical way. To show you both how much you matter to me and how important you are to world. That there can still be a life of hope, opportunity, laughter and good times. That there are people that understand you, care about you, and will stand by you no matter what happens or what you do. I will still be friends with you when I recover, @Former-Member recovers and when you and @Former-Member recover. I want to share in your triumphs and achievements.
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @Sans911,truth about me is I can honestly say no one cares if I live or die.
In regards to @outlanders'report it is exactly what I've seen,and is why I won't spill my guts again.The principles I learnt and the code of ethics when I started studying psychology mean f*** all,really disappointed in the mh system.
In regards to @outlanders'report it is exactly what I've seen,and is why I won't spill my guts again.The principles I learnt and the code of ethics when I started studying psychology mean f*** all,really disappointed in the mh system.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member - I care, I really do. If you weren't here tommorrow I would be devastated. That's the truth.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Your all .making me emotional and tears are falling and i disnt need that/this today esp since im supposr to go to that social group tomorrow. I have no self esteem left at all. If that was one of my recebt reports i cant imagine whata in the others esp during the worse times.
I dont have an eating disorder i have just changed my lifestyle alot more because of the weight gain from the meds. She ( thr psychiatrist) is well aware of all this esp when communicating with my gp. She also knows im going off those meds. My hygeine is fine but occasionally ill save myself time and petrol and go there before work meaning ill have older clothes on and that tight fitted shirt was onlt looking like that because it wsdas a 38 degree day. I feel kinda bullied by her
Feeling very worthless and pathetic..
You all mean so much to me. I feel i cannot make up for it. My words always seem lacking and just not enough. And you all sitting with me is enough even without words
@Former-Member @Sans911 @Former-Member
@Sans911 i would love to meet you all and go down the wombat hole or even better get well enough to go out and enjoy life.
I dont have an eating disorder i have just changed my lifestyle alot more because of the weight gain from the meds. She ( thr psychiatrist) is well aware of all this esp when communicating with my gp. She also knows im going off those meds. My hygeine is fine but occasionally ill save myself time and petrol and go there before work meaning ill have older clothes on and that tight fitted shirt was onlt looking like that because it wsdas a 38 degree day. I feel kinda bullied by her
Feeling very worthless and pathetic..
You all mean so much to me. I feel i cannot make up for it. My words always seem lacking and just not enough. And you all sitting with me is enough even without words
@Former-Member @Sans911 @Former-Member
@Sans911 i would love to meet you all and go down the wombat hole or even better get well enough to go out and enjoy life.
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderdidn;t want to make you cry hun, just wanted to let you know how special you are to me.
I say fk the gp, don't give two hoots into what she says. You know the truth, and that is all that matters. Everything you are saying to us, I would be telling the psych this is how it is making you feel. You have a right to do that.
Your words are always enough for me.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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They are good tears at least @Former-Member ❤
I feel so all over the place that i dont know if i should be here either. I dont know what to do
I feel so all over the place that i dont know if i should be here either. I dont know what to do
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderof course you should be here hun. This is where your forum family can help you and support you
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SleepyPandaSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander
Happy that you are here, let us know how we can help.
SP
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander ❤❤❤❤❤
