outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: rough time
@Sans911 ill just respond here if that's ok for now cause I feel like im taking over everywhere (I know what you would say to that.
you don't have to apologise for not remembering when it was. no, they aren't ignoring it, but they also know there really isn't much they can do either. there maybe a chance of another surgery but its much bigger then anything ive ever had and theres also a chance that itll make it much worse then what it is now so I guess that might be why they want to me speak to someone else as well since its their actual area of expertise.
the appts went ok. the chiro one has made me quite sore stiff and more headachy. I have 2 appts next week and then another 2 after that so its pretty intense atm trying to fix the original source of headaches (or hoping anyway).
you don't have to apologise for not remembering when it was. no, they aren't ignoring it, but they also know there really isn't much they can do either. there maybe a chance of another surgery but its much bigger then anything ive ever had and theres also a chance that itll make it much worse then what it is now so I guess that might be why they want to me speak to someone else as well since its their actual area of expertise.
the appts went ok. the chiro one has made me quite sore stiff and more headachy. I have 2 appts next week and then another 2 after that so its pretty intense atm trying to fix the original source of headaches (or hoping anyway).
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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💜❣️ @Teej .....
@outlander, it can be something coming through from our childhood that causes feelings like that .... something we haven't revisited with our adult thought processes, so it might be okay to let our inner child feelings have their moments without overthinking them ...,,, that's just my perspective anyway .... hoping that sharing it with you helps you feel a little better about yourself Hon.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thank you @Faith-and-Hope maybe you are right. ill try to just let my feelings have their moments and maybe things will pass soon..
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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im sorry for causing such a fuss tonight @Snowie @Sans911 @Faith-and-Hope @Teej
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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@outlander we are all here to make a fuss of each other, and ourselves whenever we feel a need for support, because we are all going through a hard time in our own ways and for many different reasons. I think it was important for you to speak out about the way you were or are feeling, and you have caring forums friends ready to listen when that is what you need ..... you matter ..... thank you for being you ❣️
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Makes sense @outlander in regard to the messages. Can you take a breatherffor a while and not respond until you feel up to it? If she comment as to your lack of response, say your headache was really bothering you after the chiro session.
Sometimes sitting with our feelings, acknowledging them but not doing anything is actually quite helpful. Much like what @Faith-and-Hope has said. You don't always have to act on them or react with the first emotion.
And as for your very latest post? I'm not even supporting that ridiculous notion!! We all make 'fuss'. That's asking for help or support. And that's why I'm here.
Sometimes sitting with our feelings, acknowledging them but not doing anything is actually quite helpful. Much like what @Faith-and-Hope has said. You don't always have to act on them or react with the first emotion.
And as for your very latest post? I'm not even supporting that ridiculous notion!! We all make 'fuss'. That's asking for help or support. And that's why I'm here.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thank you @Faith-and-Hope im lucky and grateful to have my friends here 💜
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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I think we all are @outlander 💜💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I just left the last msg @Sans911 shes gone to bed cause of school tomorrow so im alright for the rest of the night at least...
the emotions are just swirling around now. not really going anywhere just being like an internal tornado.
the emotions are just swirling around now. not really going anywhere just being like an internal tornado.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thank you for being here @Faith-and-Hope @Sans911 💚💚
and @Snowie @Teej too but I think you may have logged off for the night 💛💛
and @Snowie @Teej too but I think you may have logged off for the night 💛💛
