outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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MDTSenior Contributor
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@outlander
You are stronger than you think.
We all see this.
I am sorry you have to put up with it though.
You are stronger than you think.
We all see this.
I am sorry you have to put up with it though.
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Me too @outlander , sorry you have to go through all this. Privacy is very important.
I hope there is something small this evening that gives you a tiny bit of light.
Thinking of you. 💚💙💜💛❤️
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks @MDT
No @Maggie theres no light 😞 pops bladder seems ro be worsening now too, im out of the shower in a towel covered in shampoo cause he couldn't hold it in. Only went in 2 minutes ago. I know having a shower isnt something to whinge about and i know its not his fault but i havent had a shower in 2 days, finally felt ok enough to have one tonight. I dont know whats wrong with me anymore, these things barely bothered me before i would laugh but i feel numb but yet emotional too.
No @Maggie theres no light 😞 pops bladder seems ro be worsening now too, im out of the shower in a towel covered in shampoo cause he couldn't hold it in. Only went in 2 minutes ago. I know having a shower isnt something to whinge about and i know its not his fault but i havent had a shower in 2 days, finally felt ok enough to have one tonight. I dont know whats wrong with me anymore, these things barely bothered me before i would laugh but i feel numb but yet emotional too.
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Oh @outlander , that is really though, and so very unfair. You should , at the very least , be able to have a shower.....in private.
I know pop can’t help it, but you are a person with basic needs not being met here.
There is nothing wrong with you @outlander , it’s the circumstances you are living under. No one would do any better than you are doing, believe me. It’s just wrong in so many ways. I get angry on your behalf, which isn’t at all helpful, I know that.
You need a break, before you break. Sorry to be blunt, but you are living in an impossible situation.
Is there any way you can get away for a break. Careers are entitled to rest too.
Sitting with, and caring very much. ❤️❤️❤️
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks @Maggie 
I ended up just rinsing my hair back out and got dressed. ill try for a proper one tomorrow.
a break would be nice, but its almost impossible at this point in time. such a long list id have to sort out first and atm pop has more tests and I have a feeling more tests will come up for me when I see my gp on Monday so it doesn't look very likely at all atm
at least I have you guys, probably the only reason I keep going
I ended up just rinsing my hair back out and got dressed. ill try for a proper one tomorrow.
a break would be nice, but its almost impossible at this point in time. such a long list id have to sort out first and atm pop has more tests and I have a feeling more tests will come up for me when I see my gp on Monday so it doesn't look very likely at all atm
at least I have you guys, probably the only reason I keep going
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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I know that feeling @outlander . I keep going because of furbaby, and people here.
I really am sorry.
More tests looming can’t be a nice feeling either. More loss of privacy.
Are you managing to do any crafts? I know that can be impossible at times too. 💚
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks @Maggie
ive been working on the bath sets that my cousin ordered from me. its coming along slowly, ive lost a heap of motivation so its taking forever. I still have one and a half teatowels to make and another floor mat. the makeup remover wipes, one floor mat and 2 washcloths are done so far. ill try to get the teatowels done by the end of the week and she can come pick them up whenever shes ready but I have to wait for more yarn to come in stock to make the second floor mat. one floor mat takes 8 rolls with the yarn and pattern they chose.
have you been doing any?
ive been working on the bath sets that my cousin ordered from me. its coming along slowly, ive lost a heap of motivation so its taking forever. I still have one and a half teatowels to make and another floor mat. the makeup remover wipes, one floor mat and 2 washcloths are done so far. ill try to get the teatowels done by the end of the week and she can come pick them up whenever shes ready but I have to wait for more yarn to come in stock to make the second floor mat. one floor mat takes 8 rolls with the yarn and pattern they chose.
have you been doing any?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodnight everyone @Sans911 @Maggie @MDT and everyone
😴💌
😴💌
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Goodnight @outlander. 💙💙
You are doing so much crafty stuff. I hope it’s enjoyable..
Nothing happening crafty for me atm, too much other stuff going on.
Catch you later. ❤️❤️
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlander
Hoping you got some sleep last night and today has been kind to you
