outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Sorry to hear about what's happened today @outlander. Thats not a nice position to be put in
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Gazza75Senior Contributor
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@outlander 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 would you be around still?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Yes lil Sis @outlander 💜 💜 💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Could you sit with me for a little while? @Sans911 💜
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Of course my angel @outlander
Do you want to talk about anything that's going on?
Do you want to talk about anything that's going on?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks sis @Sans911
I think things are just catching up with me abit and just combining together. Something that set me off abit was finding out my sisters friend took a photo of her license. I doubt theyd do anything with it but it bothers me to know why they done it in the first place and that they have that photo. Itsmaking me really nervous but feel like im over reacting too
I also have another appointment with the surgeon tomorrow, im not really looking forward to it though. Theres not much hope that anything will change. Its more just to check its not getting worse.
I think things are just catching up with me abit and just combining together. Something that set me off abit was finding out my sisters friend took a photo of her license. I doubt theyd do anything with it but it bothers me to know why they done it in the first place and that they have that photo. Itsmaking me really nervous but feel like im over reacting too
I also have another appointment with the surgeon tomorrow, im not really looking forward to it though. Theres not much hope that anything will change. Its more just to check its not getting worse.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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I understand that you might be anxious about the situation with your sister but perhaps it's nothing more than teenage silliness. If it's more than that, like id theft or create fake id, there will be consequences if she is caught. Have you talked to your sister about it @outlander?
Is this appt tommorow about the teeth or the gynae? I'm sorry that it's not the outcome you wanted. It's so hard to live with these problems. You've certainly had more than your share.
I'm still having significant issues with wound healing of my breasts. For some reason now there is a visible difference between both sides. I will have to live with what's happened too as I don't think I can mentally cope with further surgery. I see my surgeon in January. If I hadn't asked last week at the clinic about when I was due to see her next, no one would have picked up that I was supposed to see her in November.
Is this appt tommorow about the teeth or the gynae? I'm sorry that it's not the outcome you wanted. It's so hard to live with these problems. You've certainly had more than your share.
I'm still having significant issues with wound healing of my breasts. For some reason now there is a visible difference between both sides. I will have to live with what's happened too as I don't think I can mentally cope with further surgery. I see my surgeon in January. If I hadn't asked last week at the clinic about when I was due to see her next, no one would have picked up that I was supposed to see her in November.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yeh i did and shes not bothered by it. They were mucking around ,my brain just never thinks of it that way @Sans911
The gynae i dont have to see unless i have further problems or the side effects are to much. The side effects seem to have eased so its not at the forefront now. Id just need to go back to have it taken out and new one inserted. Thankfully its actually going ok besides some hiccups to start with and occassional cramping but manageable unlike a ruptured cyst. I can see my gp for most things now.
The oral surgeon says i need to see her monthly for another 3 months just to make sure its not getting worse but theres nothing that can be done.
I dont blame you for leaving surgery out of it. It took a big toll on you in all aspects of life, im sure for many others too who had thr surgery like yours. I hope that your surgeon can work out whats going on for you and what might help. Its uncomfortable and upsetting living in a body that doesnt want to cooperate. Are the wound sites still not healed properly?
The gynae i dont have to see unless i have further problems or the side effects are to much. The side effects seem to have eased so its not at the forefront now. Id just need to go back to have it taken out and new one inserted. Thankfully its actually going ok besides some hiccups to start with and occassional cramping but manageable unlike a ruptured cyst. I can see my gp for most things now.
The oral surgeon says i need to see her monthly for another 3 months just to make sure its not getting worse but theres nothing that can be done.
I dont blame you for leaving surgery out of it. It took a big toll on you in all aspects of life, im sure for many others too who had thr surgery like yours. I hope that your surgeon can work out whats going on for you and what might help. Its uncomfortable and upsetting living in a body that doesnt want to cooperate. Are the wound sites still not healed properly?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Sometimes I need another brain to think for me too @outlander.
Are you anxious about tommorow's appointment? Do you have to travel far? I hope she's being more compassionate now then previous appt.
My left side is almost closed from where I had the skin graft. It is very flat looking though, not natural and round. The right side had a couple of small holes from the revision surgery along the suture line. In the last couple of weeks those have gotten larger to the point they have joined into one large hole, not very deep but there's a lot of fluid 'stuff' coming out. Now the skin directly above it is also breaking down and joining up with this larger hole. A Dr from the plastic team saw it at the clinic a week ago and wasn't very concerned. Neither was the nurse. But a healthy wound doesn't produce the fluid levels that this does. So just when I thought I'd seen the light of dressings, weekly hospital appointments and such after 4 months, it continues.
I feel like such a whinger though when people have it much worse than me. But I'm at the end of my tether of what I can tolerate and the impact of these physical changes to my body.
My pyschologist asked my last week if I'd ever consider another relationship. I almost told her to fk off! There's no way I'd ever let anyone see these scars and mess unless they are medical people.
I'm sorry, I've turned this around into talking about me. I've got to stop doing that
Are you anxious about tommorow's appointment? Do you have to travel far? I hope she's being more compassionate now then previous appt.
My left side is almost closed from where I had the skin graft. It is very flat looking though, not natural and round. The right side had a couple of small holes from the revision surgery along the suture line. In the last couple of weeks those have gotten larger to the point they have joined into one large hole, not very deep but there's a lot of fluid 'stuff' coming out. Now the skin directly above it is also breaking down and joining up with this larger hole. A Dr from the plastic team saw it at the clinic a week ago and wasn't very concerned. Neither was the nurse. But a healthy wound doesn't produce the fluid levels that this does. So just when I thought I'd seen the light of dressings, weekly hospital appointments and such after 4 months, it continues.
I feel like such a whinger though when people have it much worse than me. But I'm at the end of my tether of what I can tolerate and the impact of these physical changes to my body.
My pyschologist asked my last week if I'd ever consider another relationship. I almost told her to fk off! There's no way I'd ever let anyone see these scars and mess unless they are medical people.
I'm sorry, I've turned this around into talking about me. I've got to stop doing that
