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rough time

rough time

is anyone around to talk to atm

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thanks @Maggie xox
trauma and mi is so tough. I don't know what to do anymore. I can feel everything just sinking further into that deep hole.

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what is hard is that pop reacts to everything that i do. i cant have a bad moment otherwise it sets him off but im just in this constant bad headspace rather then controllable moments.

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@outlander

I'm not getting any notifications from this forum today

@Former-Member

If we could have stopped any of the things that happened to us we would have. I understand those thoughts though too as I've had them myself. Hearing you regarding that. Practical advice? I have none to offer. My magic stick never came with instructions.

Making friends is really hard. So much harder for you with everything going on. Sure would be nice though huh?

Life is just damn hard sometimes isn't it?

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Yeah notifications have been down @Sans911 only started getting them late this arvo.

Wouldn't it be great it have a magic stick with instructions! It would make life much easier and nicer too.
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@Sans911

Sorry about the problem you have been having today re not receiving notifications. This issue has been raised with us and we are attending to it. See https://saneforums.org/t5/Forums-news-and-feedback/Not-receiving-notifications/m-p/785398#M4604

Yes, life can be hard. Something I have learned to do is to try work on acceptance.... to try to accept that some things are out of our control.... Getting anxious, frustrated and worrying and having negative thoughts makes my body feel crap.... Mindfulness works for me and I try to cherish moments when life is not so hard....

I have also found the book, Mindful Relationships by Oli Doyle to be helpful on the friendship front. You might want to check it out.

Take care,

Mika

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Dear @outlander ... I am really sorry I said I was here to listen and then I disappeared. My apologies. I was feeling overwhelmed by events of the day, and your situation only added to that. I'm really sorry I am unable to solve your problems for you, or to even offer any realistic advice. Life really is terribly unfair sometimes. But I guess we all know that already .. . right? As others have said .. there is so much in your post from earlier. And I dont quite know where to start. Perhaps I wont start at all right now. My head hurts from thinking, and I need to rest. For now ... please know I hear you, and I care. Nothing more ... just that.

Sherry 💕

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Its ok @Former-Member no need to apologise. Thanks for being here ❤

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Thinking of you @outlander 💙💙💙💙☕️☕️☕️

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@outlander Thinking of you. 💙💙💙

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@Maggie 💚
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