outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Sorry hun, I sort of crashed last night. I had DBT yesterday so that tired me out.
I hope you are going ok this morning @outlander Will sheck in on your throughout the day 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie ❤❤
no worries about crashing, I ended up watching a movie too.
no worries about crashing, I ended up watching a movie too.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 missing you and hoping youll check in when you feel up to it. 💜💜💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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would anyone be around atm?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks for the offer to chat @Sophia1
I don't really know where to start. im overwhelmed and stressed with a few things happening in my life atm
I don't really know where to start. im overwhelmed and stressed with a few things happening in my life atm
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Sophia1Senior Contributor
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I am not surprised @outlander considering you are still rehabilitating from operation.
would the overwhelming feelings have anything to do with looking after family members?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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recovery seem to be taking a while @Sophia1 I still cant chew not even things like scrambled eggs. its beginning to get frustrating. can barely talk much before pain sets in and due to jaw stiffness it makes it tricky. the nerves aren't getting any better and im afraid itll be permanent. its affecting me mentally and physically now as even my smile is only half (one side with the nerve issues barely moves or it looks weird) 7 sets of stitches is so many to try and care for and be so mindful of constantly. the pain still peaks quite a lot and the more stress I have is sets it off more.
finances are really difficult atm and debt just seems to be creeping up more. I know its not pops fault but so many of his things he needs is so expensive even with medicare rebates. his latest thing is his hearing aids which is over $2000 500 deposit and then 60 per fortnight till ist paid off.
pops now been diagnosed with early onset alzheimers. he and family didn't take it well and copped verbal abuse for 2 weeks. its eased now hes forgotten what was happening. its so difficult to decide on what is best for him and respect his decision that he doesn't want to do some things as well.
ive got added responsibilities now with the kids as mum works a new job often requiring me to take kids to and from school and have them for a whil till she gets home. while its good for her and im happy for her to have this job and itll easy some financial pressures for the family unit as well its like she hasn't taken into account anything else now.
ive given up one of my jobs and decreased the amount of horses I care for at one time but its also meaning its making my financial stress more worrying.
im sorry for the ramble...
finances are really difficult atm and debt just seems to be creeping up more. I know its not pops fault but so many of his things he needs is so expensive even with medicare rebates. his latest thing is his hearing aids which is over $2000 500 deposit and then 60 per fortnight till ist paid off.
pops now been diagnosed with early onset alzheimers. he and family didn't take it well and copped verbal abuse for 2 weeks. its eased now hes forgotten what was happening. its so difficult to decide on what is best for him and respect his decision that he doesn't want to do some things as well.
ive got added responsibilities now with the kids as mum works a new job often requiring me to take kids to and from school and have them for a whil till she gets home. while its good for her and im happy for her to have this job and itll easy some financial pressures for the family unit as well its like she hasn't taken into account anything else now.
ive given up one of my jobs and decreased the amount of horses I care for at one time but its also meaning its making my financial stress more worrying.
im sorry for the ramble...
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Sophia1Senior Contributor
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@outlander
I wish that I could stay on here longer and support you..
You are helping elsewhere at the moment I imagine..
I have to get off of the computer now and do some exercises..
my computer is a desktop not a mobile so I cannot access it at any time or when out...
as well as go to the shops then to new build to assist painting ....not that I can do much..every bit counts though..
I will check in on you later..
Take care in the meantime
Sophia 💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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that is ok @Sophia1
I do hope you have a good day :heart;
I do hope you have a good day :heart;
