outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderall I wanted was for him to be home, I should be happy but have just fallen down in the dumps tonight. Maybe I am over thinking things, I don't know, but just don't feel right.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Hugs @Former-Member ❤
Maybe your feeling a little overwhelmed. As much as you wanted him home all the excitment has worn you down? It might also mean that things are back to the way they were before and that might worry you subconsciously.
Maybe when the kids are in bed and you can spend some time with him alone itll be abit easier
( not in the bedroom i mean just talking and catching up)
Just take it hr by hr for now and remember to breathe ❤
Maybe your feeling a little overwhelmed. As much as you wanted him home all the excitment has worn you down? It might also mean that things are back to the way they were before and that might worry you subconsciously.
Maybe when the kids are in bed and you can spend some time with him alone itll be abit easier
( not in the bedroom i mean just talking and catching up)
Just take it hr by hr for now and remember to breathe ❤
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Good advice @outlander ❣️
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @outlander, very wise head on such young shoulders. There a few more things I need to get out but not now, I'll just get upset.
Somehow I think he might be in bed before the kids!! On a plane most of the night.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Well if you want to talk im happy to listen @Former-Member for now use thise strategies whenever you need them to help you get through. Well maybe a nice catch up tomorrow. Just a day for you 2 while the kids are at school
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Unknown userMember
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Been using some @outlander. Need to restock some of my box again, those mm's keep disappearing!
He is back at work tomorrow but thats ok, we had a talk before and will have a better one tomorrow night.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Lol @Former-Member just remember theres other things to try too. Im glad you had a talk earlier and a better one is planned tomorrow night. ❤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Is it me or does everyone get scared to walk outside after a certain time? Every time i go outside to my car after a certain time i am to the point i am nearly having a panic attack and seeing shadows
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander - sometimes hun, especially if I'm in an unfamiliar area. And I recently have on occasion completely forgotten where I've parked my car, which sends me into a right panic mode.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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This is at my house @Sans911 ive lived here 5 yrs and well before that even as nan and pop have lived here for at least 40 yrs and i grew up here. I had to go to my car which is in the car port about 10 steps away from my front door and every time i do i see shadows on the road or walking past or dog shadows. Its started happening of a morning too and im not talking 6am its around 730 so well in daylight to go get the kids. I thought it would stop after few weeks but its getting worse and i dont know the reason behind it. And its everytime not just once or twice every morning and every night
