outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Morning @outlander ❤ How are you this morning?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im sort of ok @CheerBear another tricky night. Ive woken feeling abit off physically but think that's my meds as ive just increased them. My allergies (which im hoping is whats causing a blocked nose and not a cold coming on, cant afford for that to happen now 😑😏😬) are quite bad this morning so already done eye drops and anti histamines before it gets worse. I dont have as much on today besides school run, horses and think ill get my yard mowed too. My hook is calling so im very sure ill give in to it lol.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Sorry I ducked and run. I had a phone call to work out plans today @outlander.
Ugh and hugs for feeling physically off. You know that time not long ago when I said I was kind of looking forward to having a return of normal when it comes to my cycle? I sit eating my words this morning. Very blegh and ugh feeling here too.
I forgot it's still school where you are. Do you enjoy mowing? It's one I enjoy when I get to, though tricky when you're feeling yuck. Lol to the hook calling!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thats ok, i just done the same thing @CheerBear todays the last day for nsw. Both good and bad lol.
Um no i dont like mowing. Not realy a gardener sort of person ans makes me itch cause of my allergies (sometimes i actually get smal hive type things depending on the grass/flowers im around)
Oh dear, i can offer some heat packs and hugs to help for the next few days ❤
Could i ask you a question thats more in regards to this topic- if thats ok?
Um no i dont like mowing. Not realy a gardener sort of person ans makes me itch cause of my allergies (sometimes i actually get smal hive type things depending on the grass/flowers im around)
Oh dear, i can offer some heat packs and hugs to help for the next few days ❤
Could i ask you a question thats more in regards to this topic- if thats ok?
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hearing you with the good and bad there @outlander. Wish I could mow for you ❤
Heat pack and hug sounds super thanks 😊 Ask away, though not sure if I'll be able to help but I can try.
Heat pack and hug sounds super thanks 😊 Ask away, though not sure if I'll be able to help but I can try.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Well how about we swap u can mow for me and ill have your new project centre lol @CheerBear
Thank you ill write in just a sec. Just have to help pop do something. Will only take 5
Thank you ill write in just a sec. Just have to help pop do something. Will only take 5
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Haha that's funny @outlander, and lovely 😊 I wish we could send things to each other. I'd love to be able to do that.
I'm slow start here today so I'm around. No rush from my end 💕
I'm slow start here today so I'm around. No rush from my end 💕
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thought you may like that one @CheerBear I wish we could send each other things too, that would be pretty cool. 
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Sophia1Senior Contributor
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Hello @outlander
You must be feeling quite numb..in shock after hearing a diagnosis finally after so long..
As others have said...
You have not caused this...
medical conditions diagnosed mostly have no explanation of why...
often diagnoses are described as being within a certain percentage of the population...sometimes gender based..
other diagnoses are described as being in the rare category...again often no understanding of how or why..
I had severe endometriosis and had surgery to remove what they considered to be a tumour over 20 years ago..it was not a tumour it turned out to be an endometrium...a mass that had grown on the outside of one of my ovaries and fallopian tubes...these were removed along with the mass..
I have not heard of PCOS and looked it up..
I suggest that any questions or doubts that you have you write down and ask your gynaecologist rather than looking at dr google or asking of other's experiences..which we all can fall into so easily..
I do get the unsettled feeling that you are experiencing...a human reaction...understandable and not to be concerned about as in the feeling itself...
as for work and cleaning up...
be firm and only do the absolute necessary..
don't feel guilty either..
you have been there for so many whilst being so unwell for some time now...
seriously outlander...you have to start putting yourself first now...your body needs you to do this for you..
as for asking questions...well done I say...
ask away...
a sign of inner strength...courage and intelligence..
stay safe...hope to talk to you before you go away...not sure what date that is...
love Sophia 💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Evening @Sophia1
It was quite a shock and yeah its quite unsettling but im more accepting now then what I was the other day. At least it provides some answers and have a better direction to go now rather then more tests. He hasn't ruled out endo yet but sometimes I don't know if I want to do. I wont really change anything now I don't think.. its the same treatments pretty much except sometimes like in your case the endometrium needs to be removed.
im glad I did put in all the work to get my house cleaned up, its been easier to maintain now and helps just feel abit better about being at home. its not so cluttered and everything just scattered everywhere. if I keep it maintained now and continue to do so it wont be so much work and can just do the basics.
Im not to sure how I feel about it yet but I gave up one of my works. Itll give me more time to concentrate on myself and not as much to do, but it also takes away the good company that I had. the people I worked with were quite funny and a good way to get out of my head providing it is those people working and the event doesn't end up in shambles :face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes:
pop is seeming to need more care lately, im taking him to the drs on Tuesday and see if theres something else going on or just a few off days.
atm I don't have much time anyway but I need to try and work out things that I actually like to do and that will get me out of the house or things I can do at home but still classed as time to myself like my art or studying.
my op is only 11 days away now and seems to be going very quickly. its school holidays here now so does usually go quicker for the first few days.
💜🧡💛
@Snowie (missing you lots and hoping your ok ) @Sans911 @CheerBear @Maggie @Shaz51 💚💙❤
It was quite a shock and yeah its quite unsettling but im more accepting now then what I was the other day. At least it provides some answers and have a better direction to go now rather then more tests. He hasn't ruled out endo yet but sometimes I don't know if I want to do. I wont really change anything now I don't think.. its the same treatments pretty much except sometimes like in your case the endometrium needs to be removed.
im glad I did put in all the work to get my house cleaned up, its been easier to maintain now and helps just feel abit better about being at home. its not so cluttered and everything just scattered everywhere. if I keep it maintained now and continue to do so it wont be so much work and can just do the basics.
Im not to sure how I feel about it yet but I gave up one of my works. Itll give me more time to concentrate on myself and not as much to do, but it also takes away the good company that I had. the people I worked with were quite funny and a good way to get out of my head providing it is those people working and the event doesn't end up in shambles :face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes:
pop is seeming to need more care lately, im taking him to the drs on Tuesday and see if theres something else going on or just a few off days.
atm I don't have much time anyway but I need to try and work out things that I actually like to do and that will get me out of the house or things I can do at home but still classed as time to myself like my art or studying.
my op is only 11 days away now and seems to be going very quickly. its school holidays here now so does usually go quicker for the first few days.
💜🧡💛
@Snowie (missing you lots and hoping your ok ) @Sans911 @CheerBear @Maggie @Shaz51 💚💙❤
