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Are you still awake lil Sis @outlander? Sorry, I was out at my Games night.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I am 💜@Sans911
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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How are you doing @outlander?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Its been a really hard day sis, just have to keep adding to the list i suppose. Im not quite ready to share yet though, i struggled to keep myself together. Have been laying low abit.
How was your appt today if you feel like sharing? How was games night? @Sans911 ❤
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Yes, I noticed you've been quiet. Up to you if you want to share and when @outlander. No pressure from me hun.
Games night was OK, but I've had better ones. I took mum with me as I still can't drive. But she was a bit stressed as she was struggling to keep up with a game.
My appt today was much quicker than earlier in the week. I have to have surgery on Monday to remove the dead skin and have skin grafts from my thighs. Again I have to go in super early but because I'm being squeezed in as an emergency I don't know when my surgery will be. Hopefully it's just a day case,but if I don't go in until late morning I might have to stay overnight. My mum had a bit of a go at me asking why it took the drs so long to take me back for surgery. I told her that surgery is the last resort if they can try other ways (which they did). It's hard to deal with her negativity at times.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thank you, i know ive got you and others when im ready. It isnt something i was expecting at this age.
Im sorry youll need more surgery. I was hoping you wasnt going to need more. Is it only a day procedure? Skin grafts dont seem like they be a day one unless maybe its only a small bit.. @Sans911
Hearing you on the negativity. Im surrounded by it too. My mother's abit the same, if the drs dont do something quick enough she gets on her high horse.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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It is only small. But I'm taking a change of clothes and toiletries just in case.
At least my mum had good results of her blood tests at the Dr's appt she went to today. All her blood tests were normal for a change. Something good for her.
Have you got much on tommorow @outlander? I have a volunteer catch up and that's about all. Mum will take me food shopping in the afternoon.
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