outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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it will make it less stressful when the op comes around @Snowie ill have everything already arranged including pop as well. ive basically sorted him out already its just a few things here and there but doesn't have to be done till a few days before I go. its more just trying to fit all pieces together. i know cheques take a few days to clear so id rather have it cleared and in the businesses accounts sooner rather then later, just have to find a day when i don't have any appointments and when theres no other commitments.
i think my own nerves aren't helping to much. just being nervous about in general, making me overthink abit.
i think my own nerves aren't helping to much. just being nervous about in general, making me overthink abit.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Thats inderstandable @outlander with the nerves coming up. It is scary to think about having an op. Just remember you will be in good hands and you will have us all here with you.
Perhaps there are some small objects you can take with you to help with the anxiety and the nerves.
It is good that you will have everything organised before hand.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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that is true @Snowie im very much looking forward to it being over and done with. short term stress for a long term gain. its going so quickly now though! the kids also finish school in 2 weeks so i know i wont have much time once schools let out too so trying to do what i can now.
i have made a bracelet that represent the forums so ill have that with me all the way that's for sure.
@Sans911 👋
i have made a bracelet that represent the forums so ill have that with me all the way that's for sure.
@Sans911 👋
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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It is going quickly @outlander It will be over in no time.
My kids finish school on Friday so will then be on holidays for two weeks. Will be nice not having to do the school run. Hopefully some sleep ins too and pj days!
Glad that you have the braclet, will be a good reminder that we are all here for you 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I am very lucky and grateful to have beautiful people here @Snowie ❤ its good and helps to know i have youse in spirit.
Oh yes i like the sleep in and lazy sort of days or more so the mornings too. I never miss having to get up early and take them to school!
Oh yes i like the sleep in and lazy sort of days or more so the mornings too. I never miss having to get up early and take them to school!
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Speaking of sleep will say goodnight hun. Have taken my meds early since I was up early this morning. I hope you get some rest/sleep tonight @outlander
Lots of
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodnight @Snowie 💜💙
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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How arr you @Sans911 💕💕
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Not so great @outlander. Struggling with my assignment, struggling with pain and generally over it all.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Gentle hugs @Sans911
The pain your in sounds really awful 😞 is there a chance the community nurses could offer pain relief injections that would help more then the medications?
Are you able to get an extension for your assignment? You was in hospital for a week too so id be surprised if they didnt allow it
Im not surprised your over it. Pain and mh go hand in hand then add in the other struggles just makes it much harder to cope wity.
Would you like me to come sit with you for a while?
The pain your in sounds really awful 😞 is there a chance the community nurses could offer pain relief injections that would help more then the medications?
Are you able to get an extension for your assignment? You was in hospital for a week too so id be surprised if they didnt allow it
Im not surprised your over it. Pain and mh go hand in hand then add in the other struggles just makes it much harder to cope wity.
Would you like me to come sit with you for a while?
