outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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geezus im stressed @Former-Member that extra month I really could've used that's for sure!
theres a lot more I need to do now
-ask the hotel that ive booked if they can change it to the new date if not find another hotel
- see if family can come or not
- now I have to see if I can go for a larger loan to pay for more accommodation
- see if I can get some care for pop and see if family can help more
-go through my schedule and change all the dates if theres any appointments.
theres a lot more I need to do now
-ask the hotel that ive booked if they can change it to the new date if not find another hotel
- see if family can come or not
- now I have to see if I can go for a larger loan to pay for more accommodation
- see if I can get some care for pop and see if family can help more
-go through my schedule and change all the dates if theres any appointments.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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and arrange care for the horses as well
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Unknown userMember
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I have every confidence @outlander ... that you can do all that. Still plenty of time .. just one thing at a time.
I need to go now .. but will check in again in an hour or so. Stay calm, and remember to breathe. All will be okay. Keep reminding yourself that this is a good thing, your op being brought forward by a month. And it is. 💕🤗
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I know its good that its closer @Former-Member its more the financial side of things that has me really stressed out. hopefully I can get my loan and that will take some weight off
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Afternoon @outlander
Just read back and saw your op has been moved up a month. That is good news that it will get done quicker but lots to organise in the background.
Just take it one step at a time hun.
Will be around this evening if you need a chat.
Hugs sweetie
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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evening @Snowie @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
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Good evening @outlander
How are you going with your operation planning, after the dates changing?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I am still very stressed and fretting @Former-Member but I have done some things so far. I rang mum and her bf to give them the new dates so they can put it in for work, contacted some family and some are willing to help so I wont have to hire help now, I contacted a place about a loan and have the documents required for this. ive got most of them, just have to get a few others but ill do it tomorrow as I need to print off some pages so will go to the library. then tomorrow or Wednesday I have a phone appointment to complete the application. ive contacted the hotel in which I was staying at and they have the new dates available so ive booked the new dates.
sounds like a good start right?
sounds like a good start right?
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Unknown userMember
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Yes definitely good progress @outlander ✔
Well done. 😊
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks @Former-Member my main stress is finances so im really hoping my loan will get approved. it will be a huge stess off me and think itll help with my anxiety as well.
still have to organise horse care, speak with the hospital and see if they want any bloods, xrays etc so they don't have to do it while im there, im hoping I can afford nursing care. I spoke with a receptionist and ive given her my mobile so her boss can ring to talk about payment plan options.
I am so nervous though, now that's its a lot closer it feels like its also getting very real too
still have to organise horse care, speak with the hospital and see if they want any bloods, xrays etc so they don't have to do it while im there, im hoping I can afford nursing care. I spoke with a receptionist and ive given her my mobile so her boss can ring to talk about payment plan options.
I am so nervous though, now that's its a lot closer it feels like its also getting very real too
