outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks @Appleblossom pop in and say hello as much as you want.i like you being around too 💕
I know its been hard for you too. Keep trudging along though wont you..
Early night sounds like a good plan 🌺
I know its been hard for you too. Keep trudging along though wont you..
Early night sounds like a good plan 🌺
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Hi @Appleblossom 💕
Very tired @outlander . My husband has majorly disturbed sleeping (non-sleeping) habits and they affect all of us in the household, to varying degrees and circumstances. He is not a quiet house possum.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Mm thats not very good @Faith-and-Hope lack of sleep esp when caused by others is hard. Do you think you'll get few hours of sleep tonight?
Is the sleeping disturbances a new thing for mr.?
Is the sleeping disturbances a new thing for mr.?
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Hugs @Faith-and-Hope
No sleep really messes with life.
@outlander
Dropping off movie link ... one that is peaceful and settling for me ... not sure if its your cuppa tea.
Not gone yet. Could not bear to move the cat off my elbow ... what a wuss ... for a puss ...
https://www.sbs.com.au/ondemand/video/1482201155840/the-nightingale
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I use to do the same with my cats @Appleblossom i didnt want to disturb them wen they were sleeping or nicr and warm.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Heading to bed now @outlander , and will hopefully sleep through his first couple of wakings through the night.
He is sleeping elsewhere in the house, but he prepares mini-meals for himself during the night, and makes a lot of noise, turning on bright lights in the process as he isn’t seeing well either.
The lights don’t affect me where I am, but they are right outside where D2 sleeps with a glass door and only a sheer curtain. It’s the clanking if a spoon in a glass that you can hear right through the house and often wakes me up.
Then there is 3am breakfast, again with loud clanking spoon, and around 6am he brings his washing basket of clean clothes into the bathroom on the other side of “my” room, scuffing his feet loudly enough on the carpet to ..... 🎶 ...wake me again .....
Sometimes I am tired enough to sleep through all of it. Not so last night, unfortunately.
No, it’s not something new, since the event 10 years ago that set the whole pattern of eccentric food management, excessive exercise, disrespect of
interpersonal relationship boundaries, fixation in security, mood swings, and germophobia in motion.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ah i see @Faith-and-Hope
Hopefully youll sleep through most of tonight 💞
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Are you having trouble sleeping tonight too? @Former-Member
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Faith-and-Hope i wondered if mr would be willing to use plastic spoons either the more sturdy ones or even the cheap plastic ones that are generally used at events to help reduce that clanking noise that disturbs the whole house?
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Unknown userMember
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Thankyou @outlander
🥰🤗💖💜
night night to you and everyone.
