outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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TeejSenior Contributor
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Thanks @outlander . I hope your day improves. Time for this black duck to get up again and do some things.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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just lots of housework today @Teej
hope your day is ok
hope your day is ok
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@outlander Hi outlander 🙂 I wanted to ask what a hc was? How are you going?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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oh sorry @Bunniekins helpline chat for sane. id prefer to chat through the web rather than on the phone but it hasnt been online to connect to them.
im feeling rather shite but i guess ill manage for now. ive got housework to do but its slow as im in pain but slowly getting there. so far done the dishes and 2 loads of washing, waiting on a third now.
how are you?
im feeling rather shite but i guess ill manage for now. ive got housework to do but its slow as im in pain but slowly getting there. so far done the dishes and 2 loads of washing, waiting on a third now.
how are you?
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@outlander yes I hate talking on the phone much prefer using online too 🙂 Sorry you aren't feeling great .... hopefully when you get through all your housework you will be able to spend sometime on yourself :).
IHave to go son2 is needing his mum .... again .... lol. Have a lovely afternoon :)xxx
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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your a cutie @Bunniekins
hope your afternoon is good too 💚💚
hope your afternoon is good too 💚💚
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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does anyone ever not know what to do with themselves?
how do you guys fill in your days?
Ive got my caring role for both the kids and pop but sometimes despite it being overwhelming it can be quite boring and repetitive too. i have another job which i do on the days its quiet, then the 3rd job that is a little better and i get the social interactions and things but i feel so- i dont really know.
when im at home its the same thing cleaning, dealing with pop but also doing things like exercise, crochet and occassionally the study. i often feel i need a days rest here and there but to much i feel like i go backwards.
i dont know if its because the way i was brought up i was busy alot, even forcing myself to be busy with school or the horses, or caring roles or whatever i was doing that now i find i cant stop doing things- not sure if that makes sense or not.
i get anxious sitting around sometimes but i also lack motivation.
does anyone mind sharing your thoughts? its been bothering me for a while but usually by the time i think to address it the next moods taken its place.
how do you guys fill in your days?
Ive got my caring role for both the kids and pop but sometimes despite it being overwhelming it can be quite boring and repetitive too. i have another job which i do on the days its quiet, then the 3rd job that is a little better and i get the social interactions and things but i feel so- i dont really know.
when im at home its the same thing cleaning, dealing with pop but also doing things like exercise, crochet and occassionally the study. i often feel i need a days rest here and there but to much i feel like i go backwards.
i dont know if its because the way i was brought up i was busy alot, even forcing myself to be busy with school or the horses, or caring roles or whatever i was doing that now i find i cant stop doing things- not sure if that makes sense or not.
i get anxious sitting around sometimes but i also lack motivation.
does anyone mind sharing your thoughts? its been bothering me for a while but usually by the time i think to address it the next moods taken its place.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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like not alot feels enjoyable and im stuggling to find things to fill the day that isnt so repetitive
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Hearing you @outlander. I want to reply but just cooking tea for the family. Will be back soon sweetheart.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Learning to sit with yourself is a skill that takes time to develop @outlander You don't have to always be doing something but it does also help to have a few things in your coping box that yuo can do when yu are feeling like that. It is often the simple things for me like bubbles that help when I am feeling a little frustrated with things. Lack of motivation is a big factor but learning to actually have rest and be okay with it on occasions is also something that I had to do.
